All posts tagged: confidence

Do-It-Yourself Projects Can Save Money and Build Confidence, or Do the Opposite

Do-It-Yourself Projects Can Save Money and Build Confidence, or Do the Opposite

When something in the house stops working or needs to be replaced, the first impulse of many people is to call a contractor or comparison shop online. Others have the mindset, skills, resources or time to handle it themselves. Do-it-yourselfers often are regarded as determined and self-sufficient, but the jobs they take on don’t fit into a single category. DIY projects include growing food in a backyard garden, repurposing old furniture, creating wedding decor and home maintenance or improvement projects, like upgrading light fixtures or retiling bathrooms. They also serve a range of needs, whether creative, budgetary, social or educational. Homeowners can take on these projects themselves, buy materials or handle parts of the project before hiring professionals. Most do-it-yourself enthusiasts did not start off knowing how to paint, woodwork, tile or handle electrical or plumbing work with any proficiency but saw an outdated bathroom, a worn-out dining set or broken appliance as an opportunity for hands-on learning. Completing tasks on their own can save money but also provide a sense of accomplishment and a …

Build confidence in a new language with Babbel

Build confidence in a new language with Babbel

TL;DR: Lifetime access to Babbel Language Learning is just $159, thanks to the StackSocial code LEARN. $159 $646.20 Save $487.20   Planning a trip often comes with a familiar thought: I wish I knew at least a little of the language. And it makes sense. Learning to speak the language is a surefire way to enjoy your trip more. Babbel makes it easier to learn, and a lifetime access is just $159 (reg. $646.20) with the StackSocial code LEARN. Mashable Deals By signing up, you agree to receive recurring automated SMS marketing messages from Mashable Deals at the number provided. Msg and data rates may apply. Up to 2 messages/day. Reply STOP to opt out, HELP for help. Consent is not a condition of purchase. See our Privacy Policy and Terms of Use. Babbel focuses on helping users build practical conversation skills, not just memorize vocabulary. Lessons are designed by more than 100 linguists and structured around real-world scenarios — like ordering food, asking for directions, or navigating transportation. The idea is to help learners …

As A Gen-X Kid I Was Taught Success Meant My Career, But Nearing 50, I Finally See The Problem

As A Gen-X Kid I Was Taught Success Meant My Career, But Nearing 50, I Finally See The Problem

Halfway through her emotional interview with Ellen DeGeneres in 2016, human fighting machine Ronda Rousey started to sob. And it wasn’t any of this fake TV ratings stuff, either. The 29-year-old began to weep as she recalled her mindset right after she was knocked out while defending her UFC Women’s Bantamweight Championship title against Holly Holm in November of 2015, a fight she was wildly favored to win. “What am I anymore if I’m not this?” Rousey recalled wondering in the locker room immediately following her upset loss. “I’m nothing.” She admitted that she seriously thought about taking her own life. “What’s the point now,” she remembered thinking, “people will hate me.” As a Gen-X kid, I was taught success meant my career, but nearing 50, I finally see the problem: Even the most successful have doubts. It was a rare human glimpse into the mind of the sort of person we all expect to be fiercer than us, stronger than us, and tougher than we’ll ever be.  And yet, there she was: Ronda Rousey, the definition of a self-made modern woman doing exactly what she wanted to do in this world, revealing how she …

The Missing Personality Trait That Holds You Back At Work, Even If You’re Good At Your Job | Patricia Bonnard

The Missing Personality Trait That Holds You Back At Work, Even If You’re Good At Your Job | Patricia Bonnard

You can be great at your job and still feel like you’re not getting anywhere. That’s because the missing personality trait that can hold you back at work, even if you’re really good at your job, isn’t skill or experience; it’s confidence. Workplace confidence is a core personality trait that shapes how you show up, how others perceive you, and whether you get recognized for what you bring to the table. Confidence is what allows you to trust your abilities, speak up, and take ownership of your work without constantly second-guessing yourself. When that trait is underdeveloped, even highly capable people start playing smaller than they should. They hesitate, overthink, and hold back in ways that quietly hinder their growth, not because they aren’t good enough, but because they don’t fully believe it yet. When this personality trait is missing, it tends to show up in these 7 career-limiting ways: 1. You constantly compare yourself to everyone else Lack of workplace confidence is actually quite common. One study explored the significant impact that lower confidence …

Mom Proud After Hearing Daughter’s Response To Being Bullied At School

Mom Proud After Hearing Daughter’s Response To Being Bullied At School

In a TikTok video, a mom named Maren Droubay felt proud when her daughter affirmed that she knows who she is, in response to being bullied at school. For most parents, hearing that their child is being bullied at school can instantly trigger a plethora of different emotions. The immediate worry is about whether their child is okay, of course, quickly followed by anger and frustration over what’s being done about it in school. After finding out that her daughter was being bullied at school, Droubay was stunned at the way her daughter was handling the situation, making her feel that she was “doing at least one thing right.” A mom felt proud to ‘be doing at least one thing right’ after hearing her daughter’s response to being bullied at school. In Droubay’s video, she had been walking with her daughter after picking her up from school. The mother and daughter were in the middle of a conversation, and Droubay’s daughter was relaying what another kid at school had told her. Her daughter explained that …

Damning Political Research Finds That the People With the Least Understanding Have the Most Confidence

Damning Political Research Finds That the People With the Least Understanding Have the Most Confidence

Sign up to see the future, today Can’t-miss innovations from the bleeding edge of science and tech Far be it from us to disparage our friends doing important research in cognitive psychology, but some scientific questions really answer themselves. New research published in the Journal of Experimental Psychology: Applied and spotted by PsyPost suggests something grim: that people who most outspoken about their politics actually know the least about them. The psych researchers surveyed 216 US adults living in the US. Each was asked to take a 60 question exam, which contained an equal number of questions favoring left- and right-wing leanings, as well as 20 generic questions. Participants were also asked to rate their confidence before and after answering the multiple-choice questions, as well as a questionnaire meant to measure their political leanings. Though the average participant was broadly overconfident in their political knowledge, two groups stood out as having the worst results: those with less political knowledge overall, and those with right-wing views. “We found that people are generally overconfident in their political …

Confidence tips from an expert: You’re never too old to follow your dreams

Confidence tips from an expert: You’re never too old to follow your dreams

Have you ever felt like life has passed you by? That the dreams you had for a glittering career or launching that new business idea has been taken over by the reality of the midlife squeeze. Looking after elderly parents, or young children can push many into forgetting to follow their own dreams and take a career pause to balance the juggle instead. And then just when you are ready to step back on to the train, poof, your confidence has vanished along with your self-worth – many thanks menopause.  It is a scientific fact that fluctuating hormones can cause women to doubt their ability and work performance and many often find themselves taking a step back instead of leaning into their talents. Add to that watching the younger generation stepping up and taking your place, it can feel tempting to throw in the towel and say ‘I’m too old for this!’. Confidence coach Tiwalola Adebayo at Allbright Which is exactly the opposite of what we should be doing according to life coach, TEDx speaker and …

The Confidence Myth: Why You Don’t Need to Feel Ready to Lead

The Confidence Myth: Why You Don’t Need to Feel Ready to Lead

Many women believe they need to “feel confident” before they can lead at a higher level. They wait to feel ready, certain, and qualified before they put their hand up for new opportunities. In reality, that moment rarely comes. In our work with thousands of women, we see a consistent pattern: The women who grow are not the ones who suddenly feel fearless. They are the ones who learn to move forward while self-doubt is still present. This post unpacks the confidence myth and offers practical ways to lead at the next level, even if you do not feel completely ready yet. The myth: “Once I feel confident, then I will…” You might recognise some of these thoughts: “Once I feel more confident, I will apply for that role.” “When I am more experienced, I will speak up more in senior meetings.” “After I build my skills, I will ask for a promotion.” The assumption is that confidence comes first and action comes second. In practice, it usually works the other way around. You build …

In a vote of confidence for Meta’s Threads, Kalshi adds sharing feature

In a vote of confidence for Meta’s Threads, Kalshi adds sharing feature

Prediction market Kalshi is making it easier for its users to have conversations on Meta’s social network Threads. Kalshi now offers a share option that will automatically embed the relevant prediction market chart into a Threads post. Whether people want to discuss who’s going to win Best Picture or which reality TV contestant is going to go home (and possibly bet on the outcome on Kalshi), “with this integration, people can share their opinions alongside the forecasts they’re seeing on Kalshi,” the company said in a blog post. It’s a move that echoes a successful social media strategy for both Kalshi and its biggest rival, Polymarket, on X. However, things have gotten complicated for Kalshi on X recently. In June, X named Polymarket as its “official” prediction market partner. Last month, Kalshi removed its affiliate badges from X accounts run by its sponsored traders. This came after X enacted a policy that prohibits sponsored accounts from posting about sports betting. That policy was adopted after the prediction markets were reportedly busted for partnering with fake …

Women Who Only Eat Once A Day, Love Being Alone And Don’t Sleep Well Usually Have These 11 Specific Reasons

Women Who Only Eat Once A Day, Love Being Alone And Don’t Sleep Well Usually Have These 11 Specific Reasons

While these specific habits might seem unrelated, for many women, they’re interconnected on incredibly personal, emotional, and deep levels. From seeking control and independence in their lives to navigating the experience of aging, and even setting high standards for themselves, women who only eat once a day, love being alone, and don’t sleep well usually have these specific reasons. Compared to men, many women face these everyday challenges and experiences more often. From taking on regular obligations and facing beauty standards to yearning for peace and control, to consistently feeling unrested, these experiences are all part of a bigger picture for most women. Women who only eat once a day, love being alone, and don’t sleep well usually have these 11 specific reasons 1. They have a lot on their plate Josep Suria | Shutterstock According to a study from Pew Research Center, many women are entirely responsible for the household labor and childcare in their households, despite working and earning the same, if not more, than their male partners. Of course, this unbalanced dynamic leads to …