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A parent’s back to school misery: I’m losing my little boy

A parent’s back to school misery: I’m losing my little boy

But then I blinked, and now it’s September, and I somehow haven’t done a single other thing. I awoke with a start last night because I realised that he doesn’t have the right-coloured socks for the school, or a green pen, or a protractor. The school was very clear about him having a protractor. Sure, I don’t think I used a protractor once during my entire time at school, but maybe things have changed. Maybe it’s the law now. Source link

Tragic last days of girl, six, who died in Shoreham tragedy after parents and sister | UK | News

Tragic last days of girl, six, who died in Shoreham tragedy after parents and sister | UK | News

An air ambulance landed on the beach at Shoreham-by-Sea to attend the scene (file picture) (Image: Jamie Lashmar/PA Wire) A six-year-old girl rescued from the sea at Shoreham was resuscitated but died in hospital after showing signs of a brain injury throughout treatment, an inquest has heard. Hussam El-Khawas, 55, his wife Zeina Alayan, 37, and their daughter Sara El-Khawas, 14, were confirmed dead after being pulled from the water on August 18 in Shoreham-by-Sea, West Sussex. Their younger daughter, Saja El-Khawas, six, was taken to hospital in a critical condition and died on August 21. An inquest opened into the deaths of the four family members at Horsham heard that the father, mother and older sister were brought to the shore by the RNLI at Kingston Beach but were declared deceased at the RNLI lifeboat station. The hearing was told that the RNLI had responded to reports of “members of the public getting into trouble in the sea”. Zeina Alayan was one of the victims in the Shoreham tragedy (Image: -) The younger daughter, …

When Fear of Homelessness Keeps Parents Rescuing

When Fear of Homelessness Keeps Parents Rescuing

“Dr. Jeff, but where will he go? I can’t put him out on the street.” Those were the words I heard in a parent coaching session last week. Let’s elaborate with a few fictional examples: “Ava,” 27, has been living with her parents after losing several jobs. When they discuss a timeline to move forward toward greater independence, her mother immediately imagines Ava sleeping in her car. Then there’s Joe, who is behind on his rent again. His dad, Sal, has covered it three times this year. Each time Sal decides this will be the last, the same thing stops him: “I can’t let my son become homeless.” Now, let’s look at Tammi, who lives at home, contributes very little, and becomes furious when her mother brings up work or any significant responsibilities, for that matter. Stacy, Tammi’s mom, wants things to change, but asking Tammi to leave feels unthinkable to her. I don’t think these parents are a bit foolish, but they are a lot scared. In fact, this fear of homelessness can become …

How Parents Can Both Contribute to and Prevent Sibling Abuse

How Parents Can Both Contribute to and Prevent Sibling Abuse

Until recently, sibling abuse has been overlooked as a major problem, especially compared to other forms of childhood abuse. The good news is that there has been a growing interest in this extremely damaging form of abuse. Extensive research shows that sibling abuse (emotional, physical, and sexual) can lead to internalized shame, substance abuse, self-harm, nightmares, phobias, delinquency, and running away. In addition, many victims suffer from long-term effects including chronic low self-esteem, distrusting others, eating disorders, an increased rate of depression and anxiety, substance abuse, difficulties with boundaries, and, most importantly, difficulties forming healthy relationships. Many experts now consider sibling abuse to be the least reported and most damaging type of childhood abuse. It has been reported that approximately one-third of children in the United States have been physically harmed, threatened, or humiliated by a sibling. In this post, I will show how parents have much more power to stop sibling abuse from occurring than they are aware of. In fact, it is up to parents to prevent this damaging form of abuse in …

1980s L.A. parents became a symbol for spoiling children. Were they really monsters?

1980s L.A. parents became a symbol for spoiling children. Were they really monsters?

High on coke, the blond beauty of a certain age cradles an Oscar statuette and addresses the academy from the mirrored dressing room of her Beverly Hills estate. It’s a fantasy acceptance speech she will never give in real life. Her words are not of gratitude but resentment, bile and narcissism. And she saves the cruelest treatment for her own offspring, a glamorous, popular coed at L.A.’s most elite private high school. “To my daughter watching tonight, you are the disappointment of my life,” she says with satisfaction. Welcome to the early 1980s of Bret Easton Ellis, the novelist who over three decades has left an indelible mark on the way we think about our most privileged hillsides and canyons. TV viewers are getting a taste of his twisted take on the era — including that dark fantasy acceptance speech — this summer with the FX series “The Shards,” which is based on an Ellis novel and follows a group of rich high school friends through a maze of sex, drugs, dancing and murder. The …

Rob Reiner’s son Jake ‘marries’ stunning girlfriend 8 months after parents’ brutal murders

Rob Reiner’s son Jake ‘marries’ stunning girlfriend 8 months after parents’ brutal murders

Jake Reiner has found some happiness following the brutal murders of his beloved parents, Rob and Michele Reiner, on December 14, 2025. Eight months after the famed director, 78, and his producer wife, 70, were found stabbed to death in their California home, Jake has reportedly married his fiancée, Maria Gilfillan. The 35-year-old and Maria tied the knot in a small ceremony in early August, according to TMZ, though no further details have been shared. The couple has kept their romance out of the spotlight, and it is unclear how long they have been together or how they met. Recommended videoYou may also likeWATCH: Jake Reiner gives first TV interview since parents’ deaths Jake did give a glimpse inside their relationship last October when he shared several loved-up photos with Maria at a friend’s wedding in Las Vegas. Jake’s wedding was a bittersweet day, as he revealed in April his anguish that his parents wouldn’t be there to see him get married. © InstagramJake and Maria reportedly married in early August “I was robbed of …

6 Habits Kids Raised By Mentally & Emotionally Distant Parents Carry Into Adulthood

6 Habits Kids Raised By Mentally & Emotionally Distant Parents Carry Into Adulthood

Some parents, while physically being there with their children, may not be emotionally present. This results in kids developing lifelong habits that are actually just coping mechanisms for the mental and emotional distance they experienced growing up.  Having emotionally closed-off parents can mess with a child’s ability to regulate their own emotions. From self-esteem and confidence issues to suppressing their own emotions to avoid feeling like a burden, these habits, when left unchecked, can become unhealthy traits that mess with everything from relationships to professional success. Habits kids raised by emotionally closed-off parents carry with them into adulthood: 1. They talk negatively about themselves shurkin_son | Shutterstock Kids who grew up with emotionally distant parents tend to have low self-esteem. The safety and love they needed in those formative years were missing, and instead of growing up with a strong sense of self, they grew up feeling less than.  When a parent offers emotional support, it helps kids accept their emotions and regulate themselves when they feel out of control. However, when they don’t have …

4 Habits People Develop When They Grow Up With Judgmental Parents

4 Habits People Develop When They Grow Up With Judgmental Parents

Growing up with judgmental parents can affect you long after childhood ends. Your relationship with your parents helps shape how you view yourself and other people. If they regularly criticized people’s choices or behavior, you might not realize how their attitude altered your perspective. As an adult, that kind of early criticism can show up in your confidence, relationships, social interactions, and the choices you make.  Here are 4 habits kids raised by judgmental parents often end up carrying into adulthood: 1. You believe everyone else is constantly judging you As a child, your understanding of how the world works mostly comes from your parents. If you grew up trusting your parents’ word and perspective, even their toxic and misguided decisions were ingrained in you as truth. Children learn a great deal about other people by watching their parents. If your parents criticized people’s appearances or choices, you may have learned to expect that same judgment from others. Research has linked negative parenting with attention patterns associated with social anxiety in children. Fear of negative …

8 Lessons Kids Who Don’t Listen To Their Parents Usually Learn At Home

8 Lessons Kids Who Don’t Listen To Their Parents Usually Learn At Home

Some kids are so close to their parents that they’ll do everything they say. They trust them implicitly, so they pay attention to their rules and advice. But not all children are like this. Some can’t help but push back against their parents, no matter what they say or do. But even though they aren’t listening to their parents, they still learn lessons at home that come from their own experiences rather than following the rules. Kids learn these lessons when they don’t listen to their parents 1. There are consequences to their actions PeopleImages | Shutterstock Almost every kid gets in trouble at least once when they’re younger. They don’t know what to do, so they need their parent’s help to learn. But because they don’t listen to their parents at home, they end up understanding just how much their actions can cost. Some kids have good behavior and just make mistakes by accident. Their parents will forgive them because they know they’re not trying to do anything bad. Still, those kids won’t be …