Having close relationships that serve as a soft place to land amid the chaos of life is inherently tied to our well-being and life quality, according to a study from the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, which is why being intentional about choosing a good life partner is so important. While many of us can get caught up in the “butterflies,” excitement, and lust of a good connection, it’s the seemingly mundane things like trust and good communication that actually matter. Even if it’s hard to notice the “red flags,” men who do these certain things are not husband material no matter how nice they seem. From avoiding hard conversations and disagreements to relying on their charisma to shield themselves from taking accountability, all of these things can seem good and comfortable on the surface, but actually contribute to a less fulfilling, more unhappy marriage. Men who do these 11 things are not husband material no matter how nice they seem 1. They avoid disagreements and conflict Studio Romantic | Shutterstock Part of the …