All posts tagged: BPD

Recovery for BPD Doesn’t Have to Take Years

Recovery for BPD Doesn’t Have to Take Years

If you or someone you care about has borderline personality disorder (BPD), you’ve probably encountered misinformation about the condition that—let’s be honest—freaked you out. There was a time in the not-too-distant past when most mental health providers believed BPD was untreatable. Fortunately, clinical trials testing intensive, specialized treatments have disproved this myth (though you might still find people on the internet touting it). Now the prevailing wisdom is that BPD is treatable, but it will likely take years—and that’s only if you’re lucky enough to find a specialist who is highly trained in one of the proven treatments for the condition. Of course, for people with this diagnosis, learning that BPD responds to treatment is a vast improvement over hearing that it’s a life sentence. At the same time, facing years of therapy may feel a bit daunting. Here’s the part that gets less airtime: That “years of therapy” assumption is more a relic of how BPD research got started than a hard rule about what every person with the diagnosis actually needs. Why Many …

When Emotions Feel Out of Control in ADHD, BPD, and PTSD

When Emotions Feel Out of Control in ADHD, BPD, and PTSD

Many people experience times when their emotions feel too big or out-of-control, even when nothing obviously wrong is happening around them. Maybe you’ve had the experience of feeling calm and content in one moment, then suddenly upset and sad, or angry, or even despairing in the next moment. Your mood has shifted instantly, and you don’t know what happened to cause that. Was it something someone said? Was there a visual trigger, such as a frowning face, or a tone of voice that changed unexpectedly? Maybe it was something you saw on social media. Regardless of the circumstances that prompted it, this type of sudden, extreme emotional response might be a sign of emotional dysregulation. It can feel like you’ve been punched in the gut. Emotional dysregulation occurs when an extreme emotional response persists beyond a reasonable time frame. It’s more than just moodiness; it feels intense and uncontrollable. Signs of emotional dysregulation include: Sudden shifts in mood, with extreme emotional responses Impulsive responses: outbursts of shouting, spending, or excessive substance use Inward reactions: shutting …