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If Someone Is Seriously Socially Awkward, They’ll Often Say These 11 Phrases In Casual Conversations

If Someone Is Seriously Socially Awkward, They’ll Often Say These 11 Phrases In Casual Conversations

Published by Jenni Sidey

Not everyone who struggles in conversation has social anxiety, but people who are seriously socially awkward often give themselves away through the things they say out loud. Instead of letting conversations flow naturally, they second-guess themselves, apologize for existing, or try to escape the interaction before it gets uncomfortable. These phrases are usually small attempts to manage uncertainty in casual conversations, especially when someone feels unsure how they’re coming across. If you’ve ever heard these lines repeatedly from the same person, there’s a good chance they’re feeling more socially awkward than they let on. If someone is seriously socially awkward, they’ll often say these 11 phrases in casual conversations: 1. ‘I’m saying all the wrong things’ Prostock-studio | Shutterstock A phrase that socially awkward people say when they feel uncomfortable talking to you is, “I’m saying all the wrong things.” This statement vocalizes their concern that they’re acting awkwardly around the person they’re speaking to. Socially awkward people might say this phrase when they doubt they’re getting their point across. They might say this in …

Situationships Aren’t Casual, They’re Draining

Situationships Aren’t Casual, They’re Draining

Published by Jenni Sidey

For years, ambiguity has shaped modern dating. Situationships—unlabeled relationships without clear direction—often show up in the space between dating apps, casual texting, and the familiar “we’re just seeing where it goes” conversation. They’re often framed as freedom: No pressure, no expectations, and plenty of room for things to unfold naturally. For many people, however, that freedom doesn’t feel like ease. It feels like uncertainty that never fully shuts off. If you’re in a situationship and you want more, you might notice yourself constantly checking your phone, leaving intentional gaps in your schedule just in case they reach out, or thinking about them more than you expected to. If you’re on the other side—wanting to keep things casual—you might feel something different: pressure creeping in, or a quiet sense of being overwhelmed by someone else’s need for reassurance. What’s labeled as casual rarely stays neutral. Instead of creating space, ambiguity tends to create mental engagement. You don’t experience the relationship; you start tracking it. A message left on “seen,” a shift in response time, a text …

Smarter men possess more masculine body shapes but report fewer casual sex partners

Smarter men possess more masculine body shapes but report fewer casual sex partners

Published by José Betancourt

A recent study published in Evolutionary Psychological Science suggests that intelligence in young men is positively linked to physical traits like grip strength and a masculine body shape. At the same time, the research provides evidence that higher intelligence tends to be associated with less promiscuous sexual behavior. These findings support the idea that cognitive ability and physical health may reflect an underlying general fitness factor, while also steering smarter men toward more monogamous relationship strategies. The new study was motivated by the idea of a general fitness factor in humans. In evolutionary biology, there is a concept suggesting that overall genetic quality is expressed through multiple physical and mental traits at the exact same time. This concurrent expression happens because certain genes can influence several seemingly unrelated physical characteristics or biological systems. This genetic phenomenon is known as pleiotropy. For example, a single gene might affect both a person’s immune system and their brain development simultaneously. Some evolutionary scientists suspect that an individual’s total load of genetic mutations affects their entire body. Every person …

Casual sex is linked to lower self-esteem and weaker moral orientations in women but not men

Casual sex is linked to lower self-esteem and weaker moral orientations in women but not men

Published by José Betancourt

A recent study published in the journal Personality and Individual Differences provides evidence that a person’s willingness to engage in casual sex is linked to different psychological traits depending on their gender. For men, this trait is mostly unrelated to how they view themselves or their morals, but for women, it tends to be associated with lower self-esteem and weaker moral orientations. Sociosexuality is a psychological concept describing a person’s willingness to engage in sexual activity outside of a committed romantic relationship. People with unrestricted sociosexuality are comfortable with casual sex and do not require love or emotional closeness before becoming physically intimate. On the other hand, people with restricted sociosexuality prefer to establish a strong emotional bond and commitment before having sex. While men tend to report higher unrestricted sociosexuality on average, there is a massive amount of variation within each gender. This wide variation led scientists to wonder if sociosexuality carries different psychological associations for men than it does for women. Specifically, scientists wanted to know if an openness to casual sex relates …

People Who Have No Clue How Real Life Works Almost Always Use 11 Phrases In Casual Conversations

People Who Have No Clue How Real Life Works Almost Always Use 11 Phrases In Casual Conversations

Published by Jenni Sidey

While wealthy, advantaged people in society today often try to cover up and hide their privilege to protect their image and social perceptions, most actually have little knowledge about the reality of the world for marginalized, low-income, or disadvantaged individuals around them.  While their behaviors might be easy to conceal, people who have no clue how real life works almost always use phrases in casual conversations that give them away. Whether it’s a kind of selfishness that only people who have been spoiled adopt or a passiveness that overlooks empathy toward those who are struggling, these groups of people are clearly ignorant and privileged in a way that narrows their perspective of the world. People who have no clue how real life works almost always use 11 phrases in casual conversations 1. ‘That’s not fair’ fizkes | Shutterstock Many entitled people operate with a misguided view of fairness in their lives, believing that anything that’s not accommodating, convenient, or comfortable for them is immediately “unfair.” However, accepting that the world isn’t fair all the time gives people …

5 Spring Business Casual Outfits for Men in 2026

5 Spring Business Casual Outfits for Men in 2026

Published by Jenni Sidey

When it comes to business casual outfits for men, we’re in an era where, in most workplaces, individuality takes precedence over uniformity. Sure, every office has its own set of standards worth clocking, but by and large, rigid dress codes have gone the way of fax machines. Which means you’re free to let your wardrobe speak for itself. Spring, of course, presents its own kind of puzzle: You still want to look put together and sharp, but without overheating. It’s the season of casual outerwear, blue jeans, and lighter tones—the perfect opportunity for some colorful fit pics no doubt, but a hazardous mix when it comes to looking suitably dressed for the business casual function. We’re here to help you separate yourself from your swagless co-workers, and lean into a work uniform that speaks to the now. To do that, I’ve pulled together five foolproof business casual outfits to help you cruise through your 9-to-5 all season long. Go forth and steal these ideas—HR will be none the wiser. Five Spring Business Casual Swerves The …

14 Best Business Casual Sneakers for Men 2026: For Comfortable Office Style

14 Best Business Casual Sneakers for Men 2026: For Comfortable Office Style

Published by Jenni Sidey

GAT sneakers have been reproduced at every price point—the always-trending Margiela take is further down this list—but this iteration by the Japanese label Reproduction of Found is hard to beat for capturing the fuss-free essence of the original style at a fair price point. Wear them with tailored trousers, wear them with jeans – hey, if your office is relaxed enough, wear them with shorts (though, be warned: shorts at work remains a heated debate). Best Affordable: Adidas Stan Smith Sneakers Adidas Stan Smith Shoes AccordionItemContainerButton Pros Low-profile design that plays well with everything Just enough retro flair Cons Nothing is especially premium about them The Samba’s wave might have crested, but it’s the law that at least one retro Adidas style must always be trending. Right now, it’s the Stan Smith—one of the indomitable sneaker styles of all time. Its simplicity means it also doubles handsomely as an incredible business casual sneaker, especially for the price. It’s elevated enough to be workplace friendly, and less contrasting than the colorways of other famous sneaker styles. …

Jane Fonda, 88, makes ageless appearance in classic casual chic outing

Jane Fonda, 88, makes ageless appearance in classic casual chic outing

Published by Daniella Wilson

Jane Fonda made a quietly powerful statement as she stepped out in downtown Los Angeles, combining timeless style with outspoken activism. The Oscar-winning actress, 88, was photographed outside the Edward R Roybal Federal Building, where she addressed gathered reporters in a show of support for Don Lemon.  Jane appeared calm, composed and purposeful as she spoke to the media, reinforcing her long-standing commitment to using her voice for causes she believes in. © BACKGRIDJane Fonda looks ageless in chic outing For the appearance, Jane opted for classic casual chic, choosing a soft taupe zip-up sweater paired with tailored black trousers and sleek black shoes.  Oversized sunglasses and minimal accessories completed the look, striking a balance between understated elegance and quiet authority. Her silver hair, worn in soft waves, framed her face beautifully as she moved confidently through the crowd. © BACKGRIDJane Fonda makes a statement outside of the Federal Court in support of Don Lemon The candid images show Jane descending the courthouse steps with ease, smiling and engaging with those around her. Despite the …

REI is blowing out sneakers, hiking boots, and casual shoes during its winter clearance sale

REI is blowing out sneakers, hiking boots, and casual shoes during its winter clearance sale

Published by Jenni Sidey

Whether you’re in the market for a new pair of hiking boots, some upgraded running sneakers, or even a comfortable pair of casual shoes, REI has them on clearance right now. This year-end sale has dropped prices pretty much across the board on some of the most familiar outdoor and fitness brands. Editor’s Picks Merrell SpeedARC Surge BOA Hiking Shoes (Men’s) $144.83–$202.93 (was $290.00) Never suffer an unties shoe again. Merrell See It Forget about laces. The BOA system allows you to make micro adjustments to the fit with a simple turn of a dial. It’s a great option if you’re going over tough terrain or you’ll be wearing gloves and don’t want to take them off to tie laces. Saucony Tempus Road-Running Shoes (Women’s) $79.73 (was $160.00) Bright shoes make you run faster (this is not scientifically proven). Saucony See It Running shoes need replacing more often than our wallets would like. These bright runners offer ample cushioning and a comfortable fit for any kind of training from the road to the treadmill. Men’s …

One specific form of insecurity is significantly lower among singles who have casual sex

One specific form of insecurity is significantly lower among singles who have casual sex

Published by José Betancourt

A new study published in the journal Personal Relationships provides evidence that single adults who engage in casual sex tend to report higher sexual satisfaction and a stronger sense of their own desirability compared to those who are sexually inactive. The findings challenge earlier assumptions that casual sexual encounters are inherently linked to negative psychological outcomes for single people. Psychological research has historically focused on sexual activity within the context of committed romantic relationships. When researchers have examined casual sex, they have often restricted their attention to university students or “hookup culture.” This specific focus has left a gap in scientific understanding regarding the sexual lives of single adults in the broader community. The authors of the new paper sought to address this oversight by examining how often average single people engage in partnered sexual activity. The research team aimed to determine if casual sex contributes to or detracts from the general happiness of single adults. They also sought to identify if specific personality traits, such as attachment style, distinguish singles who have casual sex …