All posts tagged: Dissociation

What is dissociation? The coping mechanism that often goes unnoticed

What is dissociation? The coping mechanism that often goes unnoticed

Get the Well Enough newsletter with Harry Bullmore for tips on living a healthier, happier and longer life Get the Well Enough email with Harry Bullmore Get the Well Enough email with Harry Bullmore You call your teen’s name, but they don’t respond. They’re staring past you. You call again, louder this time. Nothing – how rude. But what if they’re zoning out? For some teens, this can be a sign of dissociation, a temporary disconnection from thoughts, feelings, body or surroundings. It’s the brain’s way of protecting itself from overwhelming stress or emotion. Dissociation is often linked to trauma – experiences that feel deeply distressing or life-threatening. But because dissociation is quiet and invisible, it often goes unnoticed. A withdrawn or “spacey” teen draws less attention than one who’s anxious or acting out. Misunderstanding this response can lead to frustration and strained relationships. In two recent studies, we interviewed teens who dissociate, as well as their parents and clinicians. We wanted to understand better what it feels like when it happens – and what …

When Therapists Say They Don’t Treat Dissociation

When Therapists Say They Don’t Treat Dissociation

This post is Part 1 of 3. “I treat trauma, but I don’t treat DID.” As a psychologist who has spent more than two decades working with complex trauma and dissociation, I hear this sentence more often than you might expect. Each time I hear it, I know something important is being missed. Most therapists who say this are highly skilled clinicians. They care deeply about their clients and often have extensive training in trauma treatment. The issue is not competence. The problem is a misunderstanding about what dissociation actually is and how commonly it appears when working with clients who have experienced trauma. Many clinicians still believe that dissociative identity disorder (DID) is something rare or extreme. As a result, they assume they can simply refer those clients to a specialist and continue treating trauma without needing to understand dissociation more deeply. This is a problem. The reality is that dissociation is not limited to DID. It exists on a spectrum, and it can appear in subtle ways that are easy to miss if …