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11 Scarring Childhood Experiences That Turn The Sweetest Kids Into Unhappy Adults

11 Scarring Childhood Experiences That Turn The Sweetest Kids Into Unhappy Adults

When you think of childhood experiences that are scarring, you might assume they’re big events, like accidents or natural disasters. While those can definitely scar a child emotionally, there are day-to-day experiences that can also cause serious issues for kids down the line. Parents and other caring adults almost never mean to scar kids. Still, these experiences can turn even the sweetest kids into unhappy adults. 11 scarring childhood experiences that turn the sweetest kids into unhappy adults 1. Their parents dismissed their emotions juninatt | Shutterstock When sweet kids aren’t allowed to express how they feel, they often become unhappy adults. Parents who shut down whenever their kids share difficult feelings send the subconscious message that their feelings are too much to manage, and shouldn’t be shared out in the open. When kids have dismissive parents, they learn to push their emotions away. While emotional repression kept them safe when they were kids, in adulthood, that repression keeps them from understanding how they really feel. They grow into unhappy adults because they were never allowed …

Five youngsters drown as UK experiences heatwave | UK News

Five youngsters drown as UK experiences heatwave | UK News

Five youngsters have drowned in open water amid heatwave conditions in the UK. The deaths prompted the Royal National Lifeboat Institution (RNLI) to warn of the “very real risk” of swimming in open water during the heatwave – as Tuesday saw the hottest ever May day recorded in the UK, breaking the record for a second day in a row. A boy, 12, died on Tuesday after he got into trouble while swimming with friends in a river. Lancashire Constabulary said police received a report shortly after 2pm that the boy had entered the River Ribble at Ribchester. “A large-scale search involving officers from Lancashire Police’s underwater search unit and colleagues from Lancashire Fire and Rescue Service was launched, with colleagues from North-West Ambulance Service providing support,” the force said. A body, which police believe to be the boy’s, was recovered from the river at about 7.50pm. Image: Declan Sawyer, whose body was discovered on Sunday. Pic: Lincolnshire Police Lancashire Constabulary said: “While formal identification has not yet taken place, we believe it to be …

UK experiences ‘tropical night’ after hottest ever May day | UK weather

UK experiences ‘tropical night’ after hottest ever May day | UK weather

The UK experienced a “tropical night” on Monday as the record for highest daily minimum temperature in May was broken for the second consecutive day. Temperatures did not fall below 21.3C on Monday at Kenley airfield, in south London, after the UK recorded its hottest May day since Met Office data began, the forecaster said. The country also recorded its provisional all-time hottest meteorological spring temperature when Kew Gardens, in south-west London, hit 34.8C on Monday. The previous all-time May peak stood at 32.8C, reached in 1922 and 1944. The Met Office said 12 locations broke records on Monday – ranging from Suffolk to Berkshire to Warwickshire – and 97 of its monitoring sites reached or surpassed 30C. The UK’s previous warmest May night was Sunday, when temperatures did not fall below 19.4C at Kenley airfield. “We have provisionally broken the UK record for highest daily minimum temperature in May … again,” the forecaster said. “Temperatures didn’t fall below 21.3C overnight at Kenley airfield, making it a ‘tropical night’ [no lower than 20C],” it added. …

The Love Boat actor recalls ‘tragic’ on set incident that was ‘one of the worst experiences’

The Love Boat actor recalls ‘tragic’ on set incident that was ‘one of the worst experiences’

Get the latest entertainment news, reviews and star-studded interviews with our Independent Culture email Get the latest entertainment news with our free Culture newsletter Get the latest entertainment news with our free Culture newsletter Patrick Labyorteaux has recounted his worst on-set experience while filming the classic comedy-drama series The Love Boat. The former child actor, now 60, appeared on two episodes of the 10-season sitcom, which followed the adventures of crew members aboard the Pacific Princess cruise ship and a rotating cast of passengers all dealing with different relationship dilemmas. The series ran from 1977 to 1986. Labyorteaux was 13 when he played Bobby Trymon in a 1979 episode, and 16 when he returned to the series in 1981 as Todd Andrews. Recalling his brief time on the show during a recent episode of his The Patrick LabyorSheaux podcast, the actor admitted that “unfortunately, the second episode [was] probably one of the worst experiences that I’ve ever had on a TV show.” He remembered at the time being “fascinated by all the stuff they did …

Prince William experiences every emotion as Astol Villa win Europa League – all the photos

Prince William experiences every emotion as Astol Villa win Europa League – all the photos

Prince William’s beloved Aston Villa was out in Turkey on Wednesday to take on German team SC Freiburg, with both teams aiming to win the Europa League. Ever the loyal fan, William followed the team to watch the match, with the Prince of Wales undertaking a solo trip to watch the match in Istanbul. And William was overjoyed as his beloved team surged to a 3-0 win in the Turkish city, winning their first major trophy in 30 years and their first Europa League title since the Prince of Wales had been born. Ahead of the match, William reshared a post from Aston Villa marking the final, writing: “Come on Villa! Good luck in tonight’s Europa League final! UTV!” He then signed off the message with ‘W’. © Getty Images William was hoping for the best Standing up straight Ahead of kick-off, William could be seen with a stern expression as he looked out over the field. © Getty Images Are you really supporting your team if you don’t look like this? Head in hands …

Negative emotions tied to sexual experiences take longer to fade than everyday memories

Negative emotions tied to sexual experiences take longer to fade than everyday memories

A recent study published in Applied Cognitive Psychology suggests that negative emotions linked to everyday memories fade faster than those tied to sexual experiences. The findings provide evidence that while the human brain tends to soften the blow of bad memories over time as a healthy coping mechanism, this emotional fading happens more slowly for emotionally charged intimate encounters. Scientists wanted to better understand a psychological phenomenon known as the Fading Affect Bias or FAB. This concept describes the way unpleasant emotions tied to past events tend to fade from our memory more quickly than pleasant emotions. Jeffrey A. Gibbons, a psychology professor at Christopher Newport University, wanted to expand upon previous research examining this concept. He and his team designed a study to investigate how attachment and sexual behavior influence this natural coping mechanism. “The original study published in 2021 on this topic was driven by an interest in determining if the FAB (faster fading of unpleasant than pleasant fading affect) was related to sexual behavior,” Gibbons said. “We found that the FAB was …

The four ways exercise helps you handle aversive experiences

The four ways exercise helps you handle aversive experiences

A new framework suggests that physical activity acts as an external tool to help the brain harmonize how it processes negative experiences and aversive information. The study outlines how both a single workout and a long-term exercise habit can shape specific cognitive pathways to support better emotional regulation. The research was published in Mental Health and Physical Activity. When people encounter upsetting information, their brains initiate a series of cognitive processes. This emotional generation sequence typically involves four distinct stages: situation, attention, evaluation, and response. The initial situation provides the input, and the brain’s attention systems determine which elements to prioritize. Following this perception, a goal-directed evaluation interprets the scenario. The body then forms a psychological and physiological response based on that assessment. Because these responses feed back into the system, an unchecked negative reaction can create a loop that intensifies future distress. Emotion regulation is the act of managing these responses to achieve a stable mental balance. This regulation can happen at various points in the emotional sequence. It might occur explicitly, where a …

Study explores how virtual “girlfriend experiences” tap evolved relationship motivations in the digital age

Study explores how virtual “girlfriend experiences” tap evolved relationship motivations in the digital age

Virtual “girlfriend experience” platforms may be booming because they give people easy, customizable access to intimacy in ways that speak to some of our deepest psychological drives for connection, attraction, and control. This is the argument at the heart of a new review published in Evolutionary Psychological Science. Désirée Popelka and colleagues offer a broad theoretical account of how intimacy has transformed alongside technology. They trace the girlfriend experience (GFE) from in-person escort services to online platforms like OnlyFans and, more recently, AI companions. What unites all of these, across every era and format, is the simulation of a romantic relationship: emotional attention, conversation, the feeling of being valued by someone. What shifts is how you access it. In-person GFE comes with real costs in money, effort, physical presence, and selectivity. Online versions strip away physical contact and scale up through subscriptions. AI companions go even further, offering interactions that are continuous, on-demand, and molded entirely around the user. The authors argue that this progression matters because it lets people have something resembling a relationship …

Near-Death Experiences: Do Brain Jolts Really Explain Them?

Near-Death Experiences: Do Brain Jolts Really Explain Them?

Michael Egnor and I have been working on a book on how near-death experiences — which are often life-changing — became a topic in medical science, with studies, journal articles, and such devoted to them. One change I have noticed recently is that science writers seem a bit more careful with the topic than they used to be. It’s getting harder all the time to write it all off as nonsense or fraud — without obvious contradictions staring us in the face. Chris French/Bill Robinson Consider a recent item at the BBC’s Science Focus by staff science writer Alex Hughes. Mid-April, he interviewed psychologist Chris French of Goldsmiths University in London. French is described as “focusing upon non- paranormal explanations for ostensibly paranormal experiences” — in other words, he is a debunker. Hughes begins by asking “So what exactly causes near-death experiences? Are they visions from god? An actual glimpse of the afterlife? Unsurprisingly, science can’t say for sure.” Unsurprisingly? I distinctly remember a time when many felt that science could say for sure. Dozens …

New Star Wars Games and Experiences Coming to Fortnite in Partnership

New Star Wars Games and Experiences Coming to Fortnite in Partnership

The Walt Disney Co. and Epic Games are doubling down on Star Wars in Fortnite, launching a slew of new games and features that will bring characters and worlds from the franchise to the video game, and tee up the first Star Wars film in years The Mandalorian and Grogu in the process. Star Wars has been a frequent presence in Fortnite for years, mostly through special events and some branded seasons of the game, but the new features significantly build on that, with a toolkit that lets developers build their own Star Wars games inside the platform. “Storytelling today isn’t confined to a single screen — it lives in worlds fans can step into and shape together,” Sean Shoptaw, executive VP of Disney Games and Digital Entertainment, tells The Hollywood Reporter. “Our work with Epic reflects this shared belief. From The Mandalorian and Grogu Watch Party Island to the creator-built experiences launching on May 1, we’re excited to empower the Fortnite creator community to tell their own Star Wars stories for the first time …