It’s tempting to believe the next relationship will fix what the last one broke. That if you just meet the right person, everything else will finally click into place. But real love doesn’t land well in chaos; it grows best in a life that already feels secure. Before you try to find love again, it’s worth fixing these six parts of your life — not to be perfect, but to be clear: Clear about your standards and your boundaries. When these six parts of your life are in order, you’re not searching for someone to complete you; you’re choosing someone to complement you. Before you try to find love again, get these 6 parts of your life in order: 1. Before you try to find love again, love yourself first You can’t love someone else or be loved by someone else if you simply do not or cannot love yourself. Make yourself a priority, date yourself for a while to learn about yourself on a new emotional level, and focus on discovering and creating you. Start …