A narcissistic co-parent can be vindictive and seems to have an insatiable need to “win” every power struggle during a divorce. In many instances, they involve the kids and have no qualms about turning your own kids against you. Alternatively, you want to put the dysfunctional marriage behind you and move forward, prioritizing your kids’ health and happiness. The last thing you want is for the kids to endure any additional suffering. Parental alienation takes place when one parent plays the victim with the kids and manipulates them into taking care of them while influencing them to turn their back on you. For example, “You and your dad and your sisters are together in the home that used to be mine. I am completely alone in an apartment. I have never been so lonely. I’m not sure I’m going to make it through this.” When a child hears this, they instantly panic. Biologically, neurologically, psychologically, and emotionally, kids are programmed to protect their attachment relationship. Without a second thought, the child dives in to help …