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The Jefferson Hack to Control Anger

The Jefferson Hack to Control Anger

Our Founding Fathers not only left us with a democratic republic but with helpful advice about living a good life, often expressed in the form of an aphorism, a short or pithy statement that expresses a general truth. You’re probably familiar with Ben Franklin’s aphorism “a penny saved is a penny earned,” which today would likely translate to a dollar saved, as pennies are no longer being minted. But this aphorism harnesses the power of pith to remind us about the importance of not squandering our earnings, whether in dollars or cents. Franklin also left us with this sage advice about using time wisely: “Lost time is never found again.” There was also Franklin’s familiar though frequently ignored admonition, “Do not put off till tomorrow what you can do today.” But it was Thomas Jefferson to whom we turned for advice about controlling anger. In my last blog, I referenced Jefferson’s aphorism, “When angry, count ten before you speak; if very angry, a hundred.” In this, Jefferson recognized the need to control anger before it …

Jefferson Divided | Annette Gordon-Reed

Jefferson Divided | Annette Gordon-Reed

We live in an era when Blacks and Whites, despite the end of de jure segregation, tend to live in different neighborhoods, go to different churches and schools, and socialize within their own racial groups. Thomas Jefferson’s world was quite dissimilar. He interacted with African Americans on a daily basis, in the most intimate circumstances, from the beginning of his life to the end. This is because he was born into a slave society. A Black woman was almost certainly young Thomas’s earliest nursemaid, and an enslaved Black woman was likely his wet nurse. Later, when his wife, Martha, had difficulty nursing their first child, the “good breast of milk” of the enslaved Ursula Granger allowed the child to thrive. In his old age Jefferson recalled that his earliest memory was of being handed up on a pillow to an enslaved person on horseback before their family made a journey from their home at Shadwell, Virginia, to Tuckahoe, where they lived for several years during his early childhood. Enslaved people were his primary attendants during …