All posts tagged: Lessons

The divine lessons of “Mother Mary”

The divine lessons of “Mother Mary”

Despite ostensibly being about a world-famous pop star mounting a major comeback, David Lowery’s latest film, “Mother Mary,” rarely leaves the confines of the drafty farmhouse it’s set in. There, on a stead in rural England, equally prolific couturier Sam Anselm (Michaela Coel) toils away producing her latest collection, with seamstresses and assistants dotting the corridors of her sprawling property. The locale is haunting, but not haunted, at least not until the titular diva Mother Mary (Anne Hathaway) crashes through its doors in frantic search of both Sam and some respite, gliding through the estate like a rain-soaked ghost with unfinished business. With the raw certainty of a medium reaching into the future — or perhaps more accurately, someone feeling a fever coming on — Sam has been anticipating Mary’s arrival. “You’re like a carcinogen,” Coel narrates, her low, full voice filling up the room. Mary’s presence is a malignancy, a blight on the name that Sam has worked so hard to build, an identity that’s separate from Mary’s and secure in its solitude. But …

Long Live the King: 3 Lessons From 60 Years of the Black Panther

Long Live the King: 3 Lessons From 60 Years of the Black Panther

The year 2026 marks six decades since the Black Panther first leapt across the pages of Fantastic Four #52. When Stan Lee and Jack Kirby introduced the world to T’Challa in 1966, they couldn’t have imagined that the character would become a symbol and a mirror, one that decades later would reflect some of the most critical conversations about Black men’s mental health. I’ve spent years studying and paying attention to how Black men define and pursue wellness, and particularly how our society asks them to carry more than they can name. When Ryan Coogler’s Black Panther premiered in 2018, something drastically shifted. I literally watched grown men cheer, chant, dap each other up, and ultimately cry in theaters. Fathers brought their sons, teachers even brought classes of students, and coaches brought entire sports teams. A fictional African kingdom opened real-life emotional and representational doors and everybody wanted to witness that magic. In 2026, that moment arguably matters more than ever before. Black men are dying and losing themselves at alarming rates, from suicide, depression, …

30 Life Lessons To Learn By The Time You’re 30

30 Life Lessons To Learn By The Time You’re 30

There are plenty of things they’ll tell you you should have done by the time you’re 30, or skills you should have picked up. But what about the life lessons you should have learned? Get a head start with our 30 suggestions… You’re Only Here Once It may be the biggest cliché, but it’s oh-so-true. You didn’t exist for billions of years, and soon enough, you won’t exist for billions more years. So, are you really going to get worked up over stuff that doesn’t matter? Lose Your Self-Consciousness The hard truth is that people do not think about you, what you’ve done, what you think, or how you look anywhere near as much as you think they are. Do The Best You Can Whatever you do, winning isn’t everything. But you always win if you’re satisfied that you put in the best performance you could. You set your own standards. Develop A Signature Style Find a style that works for you because not all trends will. Being recognised as well-dressed comes more through dedication …

Marriage and Disconnection: Lessons From “Is This Thing On?”

Marriage and Disconnection: Lessons From “Is This Thing On?”

While streaming Is This Thing On? on Hulu last night, I found myself wishing that Alex and Tess Novak were my therapy clients. The film, starring Will Arnett and Laura Dern and directed by Bradley Cooper (who also plays Alex’s brother), opens with a matter-of-fact but consequential decision: the end of a 20-year marriage. The separation unfolds with a kind of emotional flatness that is, at times, frustrating. Tess’ expression rarely shifts from brow-bending disappointment. Alex comes alive only in an unexpected new arena—stand-up comedy—where he begins to process the marriage and its demise in front of strangers rather than with his wife. The practicalities of their life together are oddly opaque. Alex is frequently dressed in a suit, Tess is a stay-at-home mother, yet Alex’s professional life remains largely invisible, as does any meaningful financial strain. Their beautiful home and the relative ease of their separation exist far outside the constraints most couples face. And yet, despite these gaps, the film captures something essential: Marriage is difficult, sustained work, even though we are often …

Hungary’s Lessons for Trump’s Opponents

Hungary’s Lessons for Trump’s Opponents

To the outside world, Hungarian Prime Minister Viktor Orbán began his rule as a pariah—an obstreperous, often lone dissenter from European Union policies, especially over migration. Then he became a prophet to new-style “national conservatives”—the anti-immigration, anti-elite right-wing movement that has reshaped the politics of the West. After resoundingly losing national elections held on April 12, Orbán has become a parable for how populism can be defeated. His political demise was hardly inevitable. It had to be shrewdly engineered by politicians and voters who put aside their ideological differences to defeat him. In politics, there is no natural law of self-correction. From 2010 until now, Orbán and his Fidesz party transformed Hungary into a new kind of state, which he proudly proclaimed as an “illiberal democracy.” He and his allies rewrote the constitution to entrench his power, centralizing control over civil society and countervailing institutions such as courts and universities. Péter Magyar, the presumptive next prime minister, triumphed against a tilted electoral system—gerrymandered districts, government influence over traditional media and even over the country’s billboards—designed …

The labor economics of ‘Alien’ — and its lessons for inequality on Earth : Planet Money : NPR

The labor economics of ‘Alien’ — and its lessons for inequality on Earth : Planet Money : NPR

This article first appeared in the Planet Money newsletter. You can sign up here. OK, hear me out. I’m about to get into a new book with a provocative argument about why income inequality has exploded in America and how to fight it. But at the center of this very serious economic book is a concept that has me thinking a lot about … the labor economics of the movie Alien. You know, the classic sci-fi horror movie starring Sigourney Weaver, with that diabolical alien — the “Xenomorph” — which has inspired like a dozen other movies and TV shows in the years since. It provides a sort of extreme example of an economic phenomenon that this book and an increasing number of economists suggest is a lurking monster in the labor market that needs to be confronted. A central storyline in Alien franchise goes something like this: In 2099, a British company and a Japanese company merged to create the all-powerful Weyland-Yutani Corporation, a multi-planetary conglomerate with tentacles in artificial intelligence, robotics, terraforming, mining, …

Column: Faith lessons don’t belong in public schools, and Christians know that

Column: Faith lessons don’t belong in public schools, and Christians know that

We had so much going on this week, with the new season of “Euphoria” coming out and the president threatening to wipe out a 2,600-year-old civilization, that it’s easy to miss things like the latest attempt by conservatives to reshape the U.S. into a theocracy. Not satisfied with shoehorning Bible stories into its English curriculum and the push to display the Ten Commandments in public classrooms, the Texas Board of Education is now considering adding Bible verses to the required reading list for students. Among the scriptures the board is considering are Psalm 23, the story of Jonah and the whale, and Lamentations 3, which talks about keeping your faith in God in good times and in bad. In fact, compiled together, the scriptures that officials are considering read like pages torn from “Chicken Soup for the Christian Soul.” Which, as a Christian, I appreciate — however, as an American, I vehemently oppose. For one of the country’s largest providers of public education to consider requiring students to read Bible verses feels like a grenade …

Children and the Age of “Why?”: Lessons for Grandparents

Children and the Age of “Why?”: Lessons for Grandparents

My 2-1/2-year-old grandson is now at the developmental stage of asking “What’s that?” and “Why?” His curiosity about the world is exploding, and it’s so enjoyable looking at the world through his eyes. Every question answered is followed by a “But why?” As a psychologist, I know it reflects a normative developmental stage in which curiosity drives learning. As a grandfather, it brings such joy and excitement to watch him figure out and understand the world around him. This got me thinking about the importance of grandparents themselves remaining curious—not only about their grandchild’s thoughts and experiences, but also about their own world. Curiosity is not only a developmental task for children but may also be one of the healthiest emotional tasks for grandparents. Curious grandparents tend to be less judgmental, more adaptable, and more connected to the people they love. From a psychological perspective, curiosity communicates: Your ideas matter. The world is interesting and safe to explore. Learning is something we can do together. In my clinical practice working with multigenerational families, I often …

The more commodified your job, the more likely AI can do it – lessons from online freelancing

The more commodified your job, the more likely AI can do it – lessons from online freelancing

Not long ago, if you needed a speech polished, a document translated or a logo designed, you would probably have hired a freelancer online. Millions of people did exactly that. They went to platforms such as Fiverr and Upwork and paid someone (maybe on the other side of the world) to do the job. In 2023, online gig workers were estimated to number between 154 million and 435 million globally. As such, they could represent as much as 12.5% of the global labour force. Today, however, many people do something else. They open ChatGPT. Generative AI now acts as a copy editor, translator, illustrator and research assistant in one. It can summarise a report in seconds, write social media posts, create a presentation or produce a simple logo at virtually no cost. What, then, has happened to the freelancers who used to do this work? AI has long been discussed as a threat to jobs and livelihoods. But what’s the reality? In this new series, we explore the impact it is already having on different …

The Testaments boss reveals “lessons” learned from The Handmaid’s Tale

The Testaments boss reveals “lessons” learned from The Handmaid’s Tale

When The Testaments makes its debut on 8 April, it’ll be almost nine years after its predecessor The Handmaid’s Tale first arrived on screens – a launch that picked up eight Primetime Emmy awards, a raft of glowing reviews and a legion of loyal fans. But the mood began to waver as some critics, and a portion of the viewership, took issue with the unrelenting, often nauseating amount of violence directed at its female characters, frequently described as ‘torture porn’. How did its creator reckon with that particular issue – and any others – heading into the sequel? “As The Handmaid’s Tale evolved – and we learned lots of lessons – we were very careful to keep track of them and then to bring them to bear on The Testaments,” show creator Bruce Miller told Radio Times. “We knew very early on that we were going to do The Testaments, so I think… and we’re in the minority as men on this show, most of our department heads are female, and a lot of them …