Lindy West’s Disconcerting New Memoir
Lindy West’s new memoir, Adult Braces, ends with a portrait of unconventional domestic bliss. She has moved to a cabin a few hours outside of Seattle with her husband, Aham, and her husband’s girlfriend, Roya, who is now also her girlfriend, Roya. Happiness in triplicate! This arrangement gives West an extra hand to do the dishes, an extra brain to remember to pay the bills, an extra warm body to have sex with Aham when West is feeling depressed and isn’t in the mood. The trio has even established a charming rotation system so that there are only ever two people sleeping in the same bedroom at a time. “It’s what I want,” she writes. “I like it. It doesn’t have to mean anything more than that.” This outcome wasn’t inevitable. West—whose earlier memoir, Shrill, was turned into a Hulu series—writes that she was resistant when Aham first expressed a desire to be nonmonogamous. Most of Adult Braces is spent describing the road trip she took from Seattle to Florida and back again to process …








