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11 Passive Aggressive Phrases That Are Actually Way Meaner Than Just Being Rude Outright

11 Passive Aggressive Phrases That Are Actually Way Meaner Than Just Being Rude Outright

It’s easy to spot a rude person and avoid them, but passive-aggressive people can be even more toxic. They present their scathing comments in a way that seems like they have your best interests at heart, while they’re really just breaking your heart more than someone being outright rude ever could. Psychologist Dr. Ashley Olivine, PhD, described passive aggressiveness as “indirect hostility rather than a direct expression of anger.” It sounds like this would be preferable to having someone treat you with open disdain, but a passive-aggressive person can actually be even more hurtful. These are some of the most common passive-aggressive phrases, which are far meaner than someone just being straight-up rude. Here are 11 passive aggressive phrases that are actually way meaner than just being rude outright 1. ‘I don’t like how you handled that’ Drazen Zigic | Shutterstock If someone said they didn’t like how another person handled something, it would be easy to think that they were speaking from a place of concern or just trying to help. However, this kind …

The Problem With Passive Leadership: When Doing Nothing Hurts

The Problem With Passive Leadership: When Doing Nothing Hurts

We work to achieve financial security, pursue professional growth, and, if we are lucky, explore our curiosity and serve the greater good. Regardless of the work we do, leadership plays a central role in shaping our experiences. The bureaucratic structure, administrative climate, and to whom we report influence our engagement and career trajectory. Leaders possess their own styles, often adapting to the institution’s prevailing culture. Some styles are more readily identifiable, such as transactional and transformational leadership approaches. However, others operate quietly behind the scenes, leaving employees flummoxed when trying to decipher the expectations and organizational norms that shape their job responsibilities. Transactional and Transformational Leadership Approaches Identifying types of leadership is a messy game, for classifications can be limiting. Nonetheless, despite potential drawbacks, placing leaders into buckets according to their qualities provides a framework for examining behavioral markers that shape employees’ work lives. Transactional and transformational leadership are two styles that exist along a continuum. Transactional leaders view their job in terms of task management, daily checking off the to-do list in search of …

Passive Aggressive Phrases To Avoid With Friends

Passive Aggressive Phrases To Avoid With Friends

Friendships are supposed to be a source of comfort, joy and support. But even in the closest relationships, communication can break down, leading to tension. “In friendship, like in all human relationships, misunderstandings and hurt feelings are inevitable,” said Vanessa Cornell, a friendship expert and founder of the community support network NUSHU. “What really determines the strength and resilience of a friendship is how those moments are handled. One of the quickest ways to undermine healthy communication is falling into passive aggression.” Passive aggression is basically expressing your negative feelings in ways that are not direct. Some classic passive-aggressive behaviors include not replying to texts or changing the subject in conversation to avoid acknowledging what someone said. You might flake on invitations you previously said yes to, or you might ice someone out by being less warm and excluding them from your plans. “Giving a friend the silent treatment rather than telling her what you are upset about is passive-aggressive,” said Irene S. Levine, a clinical psychologist and friendship expert. “It is a way to …

As Iranians face repression, ‘inaction amounts to passive complicity’

As Iranians face repression, ‘inaction amounts to passive complicity’

As the Iranian people face a massacre that is now being documented, Europe must no longer remain a bystander. At a time when strategies of chaos threaten global stability, a collective European stance – clear and resolute – is essential. Defending Iranians today is to defend our own democratic values, human dignity and the universality of fundamental rights. In the face of escalating violence, a mobilization of democratic consciences – both citizens and organizations – is urgently needed to defend the right of Iranians to live freely in a democratic state. Read more Subscribers only Behind Iran’s brutal crackdown, rulers play for survival For several weeks, Iranians have faced state violence on an undeniable scale. The information received, corroborated by numerous sources, has confirmed the systematic use of firearms against civilians, unarmed crowds, students, women and teenagers. Shootings are no longer just a threat – they are a reality. The death toll is in the thousands. What is happening in Iran today is no longer a sporadic crackdown, but a massacre. Remarkable dignity and courage …