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Taylor Swift says she dislikes when fans treat her lyrics like ‘paternity tests’

Taylor Swift says she dislikes when fans treat her lyrics like ‘paternity tests’

Get the inside track from Roisin O’Connor with our free weekly music newsletter Now Hear This Get our free music newsletter Now Hear This Get our free music newsletter Now Hear This Taylor Swift fans are known for their ability to dissect lyrics and analyze easter eggs hidden in the superstar’s songs — but the singer says it sometimes goes too far. Swift, 36, was discussing the writing process for her notoriously specific lyrics in a recent feature for The New York Times Magazine’s 30 Greatest Living American Songwriters profile when she admitted that it bothers her when her devoted fanbase analyzes the subject of her hit songs instead of recognizing the craft behind them. “There’s corners of my fanbase who are gonna take things to a really extreme place,” the singer-songwriter told the outlet in a video interview published Tuesday. “There’s nothing I can do about that. There’s people who are gonna try to, like, do detective work, figure out the details — who is that about? What is this?” She continued: “When it gets …

The maternity and mortgage struggle of being self-employed: ‘It was overwhelming at times’ | Maternity & paternity rights

The maternity and mortgage struggle of being self-employed: ‘It was overwhelming at times’ | Maternity & paternity rights

Harriett Thompson started her maternity leave at the beginning of 2025, but at the start of this month she still had not received any of the statutory pay she was entitled to. The freelance makeup artist described what she says is a familiar experience for a lot of self-employed mothers. “Luckily [my partner] Alex started a long contract when our daughter was born, which has enabled us to get by … That’s coming to an end now, with no future work in sight, so I’m getting anxious about receiving the money,” she told us. Alex Tinney, the founder of Flex Pilates, says she faced similar delays. “I got my maternity pay literally the day I returned to work … I had to save up before going on maternity to cover my mortgage and bills and pay myself my maternity pay from my company despite the government not sending it to me for four months. Luckily, the company is in a position to do that, but that wouldn’t be the case for everyone.” Thompson applied for …

UK’s Paternity Leave Changes: Why It ‘Doesn’t Go Far Enough’

UK’s Paternity Leave Changes: Why It ‘Doesn’t Go Far Enough’

Dads-to-be now have the right to paternity leave from the first day in a new job, rather than having to wait six months to be eligible. The change means that from 6 April, new dads can take two weeks of paternity leave from day one of a new job – however, this will not be paid leave unless they’ve worked for their employer for more than 26 weeks. Dads can receive £194 per week or 90% of pay (whichever is lower). But campaigners are saying the change “doesn’t go far enough” to improve the UK’s measly paternity leave offering, which has been slammed as the worst in Europe. MATRI Coaching polled 1,000 working parents and found 42% do not believe the current paternity leave rules “go far enough” – an additional 27% believe they are “not fit for purpose”. Ultimately, many parents want to see dads’ leave extended from the current offering of two weeks, to six weeks, as default. Elliott Rae, founder of Parenting Out Loud and Equal Parenting Week, said the latest changes …

Relatives with lower paternity uncertainty are perceived as kinder

Relatives with lower paternity uncertainty are perceived as kinder

According to a large study published in Evolutionary Psychology, people consistently perceive family members as kinder when there is greater certainty of biological relatedness. Humans often assume that kindness within families is driven mainly by love, shared history, or cultural expectations. Yet evolutionary theories suggest that altruism within families may also be shaped by genetic relatedness. According to kin selection theory, people are predisposed to invest more care and support in relatives who are more likely to share their genes, because such investment indirectly promotes their own genetic success. One important factor complicating this picture is paternity uncertainty, the fact that, unlike maternity, biological fatherhood is never absolutely certain. Radim Kuba and Jaroslav Flegr examined whether this uncertainty influences how people perceive kindness among different family members. Drawing on evolutionary psychology and prior findings on parental and grandparental investment, they asked whether relatives associated with higher paternity certainty (such as mothers or maternal grandmothers) are consistently seen as kinder than those associated with lower certainty (such as paternal grandfathers). The researchers analyzed data from a …