All posts tagged: Polite

8 Habits Of Women Who Grew Up Always Having To Be Good And Polite

8 Habits Of Women Who Grew Up Always Having To Be Good And Polite

Published by Jenni Sidey

For many women, being polite and good weren’t just personality traits they picked up as kids. It was an expectation that shaped how they spoke and behaved, and these tendencies likely followed them into adulthood. Whether these women grew up in cultural environments that stressed these behaviors or they were quietly taught by mothers raised in a similar way, these habits are extremely apparent in their everyday lives, but only if you know what to look for. Women who grew up having to be good and polite often have 8 specific habits that make them easy to spot: 1. They apologize for everything fizkes | Shutterstock A woman who grew up feeling like she always needs to be polite will say sorry constantly. Whether she’s asking a question, sharing her opinion, looking for help, or even expressing an emotion, she apologizes for anything that draws attention to herself. In her experience, causing inconvenience was discouraged. She was only rewarded when she was agreeable and easy to deal with, so she tends to feel guilty about …

These polite Canadian lawbreakers may soon be going legal under new e-bike law

These polite Canadian lawbreakers may soon be going legal under new e-bike law

Published by skeptic

The issue of e-bike scofflaws has grown considerably over the last few years, normally taking the form of teenagers on fast e-bikes illegally cruising down sidewalks or recklessly riding through intersections. But as it turns out, Canada’s largest province is full of e-bike scofflaws of a different variety: parents simply wanting to bring their kids to school without using a car. In Ontario, home to over a third of Canada’s population, laws governing micromobility devices like e-bikes do not permit anyone under 16 on board, either as the main rider or a passenger. Despite the ban, every school day, there are thousands of parents who line up to drop their kids off at school on the back of a cargo e-bike, in full violation of the law. It’s a popular form of school drop-off vehicle that helps parents save time, cut down on fuel costs, and get more fresh air with their kids. Local mother Jodi Enns uses a cargo e-bike to bring her two kids to school in the morning. “This bike has changed …

The big split: Why being polite – and your mate’s cocktail – is costing you £244

The big split: Why being polite – and your mate’s cocktail – is costing you £244

Published by Daniella Wilson

Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more When Hannah*, a freelancer struggling to survive in London, arrived at her friend’s impromptu birthday dinner late thanks to tube strikes, the six other (more local) guests had already ordered a myriad of sharing small plates without her. From the ravished spread, she managed to mop up two bites of food and a negroni; then everyone decided to split the bill. “My friend said ‘you’ve hardly eaten anything’ but I felt really awkward,” she says. “I probably lost like £20 but it just didn’t feel appropriate to push back at a one-off birthday party.” Unequal bill splitting is a costly courtesy – and far from a one-off. In actual fact, one in three Brits regularly overpay on shared bills like Hannah’s to avoid awkward …

Asghar Farhadi’s ‘Parallel Tales’ Premieres to Polite Ovation

Asghar Farhadi’s ‘Parallel Tales’ Premieres to Polite Ovation

Published by Daniella Wilson

Asghar Farhadi, the Iranian master whose films have twice won the best international feature Oscar (2011’s A Separation and 2016’s The Salesman) and twice won prizes at the Cannes Film Festival (The Salesman and 2021’s A Hero), premiered his latest work, Parallel Tales, at Cannes’ Grand Théâtre Lumière on Thursday night. The French-language drama, which is playing in competition at this year’s fest, was greeted with a five-minute standing ovation — which is, by Cannes standards, polite but not especially enthusiastic. Adapted by Farhadi and his brother, Saeed, from a chapter of Krzysztof Kieślowski’s 10-part project for Polish television, Dekalog (1989-1990), Parallel Tales is a study in voyeurism and the sometimes blurry line between fantasy and reality. It boasts an all-star French cast that includes Isabelle Huppert, Virginia Efira, Vincent Cassel and, in a small role, Catherine Deneuve, all of whom do fine work. But, as The Hollywood Reporter’s chief film critic David Rooney noted in his review, the film becomes a bit meandering and arduous over the course of its two-hour-twenty-minute runtime. And by the …

11 Polite Phrases People With Good Manners Say That Have Gone Out Of Style With Gen Z

11 Polite Phrases People With Good Manners Say That Have Gone Out Of Style With Gen Z

Published by Jenni Sidey

As a study from the University at Buffalo explains, shifting minds contributes to shifting behaviors amongst individuals. Especially as societal norms and expectations change with every new generation, the collective mindsets that influence things like “manners” change along with them. While young people have their own reasons for changing behaviors and pushing back on social norms, the polite phrases people with good manners say that have gone out of style with Gen Z are sorely missed. Especially as narcissism and entitlement continue to grow, they’re needed more than ever. Here are 11 polite phrases people with good manners say that have gone out of style with Gen Z 1. ‘Please’ Drazen Zigic | Shutterstock According to a study from Social Psychology Quarterly, saying “please” and “thank you” is becoming less common amongst young people, but also across all age groups. As we’re pushed into a more entitled culture, where comfort and convenience are more important than connection and respect, fewer people are taking the effort to offer this basic respect. While it might seem like a small shift, …

Japan Tops Canada As World’s Most Polite Nation

Japan Tops Canada As World’s Most Polite Nation

Published by Jenni Sidey

What makes a country “polite”—and which ones stand out globally? A new survey of over 4,600 respondents by Remitly reveals a clear frontrunner. Japan alone captured more than 35% of all votes, far ahead of every other country on the list. As Visual Capitalist’s Gabriel Cohen shows in the chart below, the ranking highlights how perceptions of politeness vary worldwide, while also revealing strong regional patterns across Europe and Asia. Perceptions of politeness can shape everything from tourism experiences to international business relationships. For travelers, these rankings often influence expectations around etiquette, hospitality, and day-to-day interactions abroad. Japan: The World’s Clear Favorite Japan stands far ahead of every other country, capturing 35.2% of all votes—nearly three times more than second-place Canada. No other country breaks even 15%, underscoring just how dominant Japan’s reputation is globally. Japanese culture is famous for its high emphasis on respect, etiquette, and social harmony. The country’s blend of tradition and recognizable cultural exports has helped it become well-regarded nearly everywhere. Certain traits associated with local culture no doubt contribute to the Japanese …

The Best Fisherman Sandals of 2026 Are the Polite Way to Show Feet

The Best Fisherman Sandals of 2026 Are the Polite Way to Show Feet

Published by Jenni Sidey

A few years ago, hunting down the best fisherman sandals money could buy felt like a tough, thankless task. The strappy leather silhouette, which originated on the Mediterranean coast, couldn’t compete with the chokehold of clogs, Birkenstock sandals, or slip-on loafers. But then, all of that changed. Fisherman sandals—defined by their closed-toe design and cage-like strap, originally built to drain sea water drain from those fishermen’s feet fast—started showing up in a litany of unexpected places: on runways, in lookbooks, on guys in big shirts loitering outside small bars. The fisherman sandal had officially crossed the rubicon into fashion territory, buoyed (sorry) by fresh riffs from old-school cobblers and upstart brands alike. Whether or not you care about capital-F fashion, this development remains great news! Because fisherman sandals aren’t just cool—they truly keep you cool, while sparing everyone around you from seeing your not-quite-summer-ready toes toes. Nowadays, sourcing the best of the style requires casting a wide net (sorry, again), so I did the hard work for you. Below, 13 pairs to keep your feet …

Canada’s Polite Pogrom – The Atlantic

Canada’s Polite Pogrom – The Atlantic

Published by José Betancourt

Ted Rosenberg quit teaching geriatric medicine after 30 years because his employer, the University of British Columbia, was too tolerant. In the days and weeks following the Hamas massacre of innocent Israelis on October 7, 2023, students and colleagues alike in his academic community posted fiery condemnations of and expressions of moral disgust toward … Israel. Rosenberg felt that some of these messages crossed the line into bigotry. One note accused Israel of harvesting the organs of murdered Palestinians. Another, from a medical-school resident, warned of a sinister, unnamed group of people “pulling the strings, who have orchestrated every war to ever happen, the ones who profit off of death and sickness.” “ The way I saw it,” he told me, “that level of demonization put the whole Jewish community at risk.” He did not resign because of the messages, though; he resigned because the university wouldn’t do anything about them. “ I tried to meet with the dean,” Rosenberg said, “and he said, ‘If you feel you’re being discriminated against, put it through the DEI program.’ …

11 Phrases People Use When They Were Raised With Good Manners

11 Phrases People Use When They Were Raised With Good Manners

Published by Jenni Sidey

Well-mannered people go above and beyond displaying simple acts of politeness. In conversations at work, with friends, or among family, they do more than just say “please” and “thank you.” Whether it’s admitting their mistakes or thanking someone for their patience, if someone was raised with good manners, they’ll make sure to use these phrases often, showing that they’re considerate on a deeper level and truly care about the people around them. People with good manners know that kindness is rooted in mutual respect and that they can’t expect to be treated with compassion if they don’t show it to others. They live by example and truly believe in the golden rule. As children, they were taught to be considerate of their peers and elders, and they continue to show respect in their daily adult interactions. Here are 11 phrases people use when they were raised with good manners:  1. ‘I appreciate you’ Chay_Tee | Shutterstock People who were raised with proper manners know the value of expressing gratitude. By letting other people know they …