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Crying at work is a rite of passage – and can even help your career

Crying at work is a rite of passage – and can even help your career

Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Are you… are you crying?” The question was clearly rhetorical. As tears made their way down my baby-faced 21-year-old cheeks in gentle rivulets, there was no doubt in anyone’s mind that I was, of course, crying. Either that or I’d just been hit by the world’s worst case of hay fever. In the middle of winter. Indoors. You never forget the first time your emotions come pouring out of your eyeballs while at work. And it happens to more of us than you’d think – in a recent survey of more than 1,000 US adults by AI resume builder site Resume Now, some 39 per cent of employees admitted to having cried at least once in the workplace. I’m one of the 14 per …

Dozens dead in South Africa circumcision initiation rite

Dozens dead in South Africa circumcision initiation rite

Zolani Mkiva, secretary general of the Congress for Traditional Leaders of South Africa, said unscrupulous illegal schools saw initiation as a money-making venture. He told the state broadcaster: “This now has become a national disaster. We can’t afford that year on year we lose 50 children in a sacred ritual that’s meant to prepare young men for leadership and the future.” South Africa’s traditional affairs minister Velenkosini Hlabisa has blamed negligence by the initiation schools, but also said parents were failing to heed advice. He said: “There is negligence in terms of meeting health standards in some of the initiation schools. If you take your child to an initiation school, you never make a follow-up, you do not monitor, you do not go there to see whether the child does drink water, you are placing your child at risk.” Under South African law, only children who are 16 years and above may be admitted to initiation school with parental consent. Mr Hlabisa said 41 people have been arrested in relation to illegal initiation schools, including …