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The long history of silent meditation retreats and the individuals who helped shape them

The long history of silent meditation retreats and the individuals who helped shape them

(The Conversation) — Silent retreats have become increasingly common in the United States in recent years. To calm down and reset their nervous systems, people relinquish their phones and reading materials and commit to speaking at a bare minimum to learn practices of self-awareness. Silent meditation and silent prayer have shaped spiritual lives within a variety of religious traditions for thousands of years. Today, however, those practices are often being offered in secular settings. One particular form of meditative silence, the 10-day mindfulness retreat, has had an outsized impact. Research I have carried out over the past two decades sheds light on the role of the Burmese meditation master Sayagyi U Ba Khin in popularizing mindfulness meditation. The term “sayagyi” means “respected teacher.” Sayagyi U Ba Khin at his meditation center in Rangoon in 1961.Pariyatti Ba Khin was one of a small number of prominent Buddhist lay meditation teachers in late colonial and early postcolonial Burma. His silent, 10-day retreat became a model for a wide range of intensive meditation traditions. Three of Ba Khin’s …

4 Basically Free Changes To Make If You Want To Build A Life That Feels Good | Kristine Carlson

4 Basically Free Changes To Make If You Want To Build A Life That Feels Good | Kristine Carlson

We can build a life that makes us feel good. Yet, so many people settle for so much less by thinking they have to stick with the life they have been dealt. But that’s not true. There is always a way to start building the life you really want. When your days feel heavy, it’s usually because your energy is leaking in places you barely notice. The good news is that the same small things breaking your spirit can also rebuild it. These four basically free changes won’t transform your life overnight, but they will change how it feels to live it. Here are four basically free changes to make if you want to build a life that feels good: 1. Figure out what you want The first and most important thing is to know what you want and don’t want. You can’t create without having at least an idea of what you want to start with. Even if you don’t know for sure, focus on what you think you want and start working towards …

People With Actual Intelligence Never Waste Energy Complaining About These 11 Things

People With Actual Intelligence Never Waste Energy Complaining About These 11 Things

While gossip can occasionally be bonding for romantic couples, and complaining can be good for venting out stagnant emotions when we don’t feel heard, relying on these communication habits all the time can spark a negative spiral that’s contagious to everyone around us. It keeps us stuck in action if we lean on it for comfort too often, and often ensures that we linger on what’s “missing” or “wrong” in our lives instead of moving forward and focusing on growth. Whether it’s a bad boss at their job or a hard project they’re working on, people with actual intelligence never waste energy complaining about these things. They may occasionally vent out negative emotions and seek support, but their complaints never erupt without action. When they notice something is wrong or that they’re struggling in a certain area of their lives, their complaints are a redirection and a reminder to change, not necessarily a comforting ritual. People with actual intelligence never waste energy complaining about these 11 things: 1. Bad friends PeopleImages | Shutterstock.com Of course, letting go …