All posts tagged: SelfCompassion

Psychological network analysis reveals how inner self-compassion connects to outward social attitudes

Psychological network analysis reveals how inner self-compassion connects to outward social attitudes

A recent study published in the journal Mindfulness suggests that the way people treat themselves during difficult times is linked to their views on social equality. The research provides evidence that empathy serves as a bridge connecting self-compassion to a reduced preference for dominance over other social groups. These findings open up the possibility that fostering a kinder relationship with oneself might eventually promote broader social harmony. Self-compassion involves treating oneself with kindness and understanding rather than harsh judgment. While previous studies show that self-compassion benefits individual mental health, its impact on wider societal attitudes has remained somewhat of a mystery. Scientists wanted to explore how an individual’s internal relationship with themselves might extend outward to shape their feelings about different social groups. Specifically, the researchers examined a concept known as social dominance orientation. This psychological term refers to a person’s preference for inequality among social groups, where some demographics naturally dominate others. The scientists proposed that high self-compassion might relate to higher empathy, which in turn might connect to lower levels of this dominance …

Why Self-Compassion Fails After Complex Trauma

Why Self-Compassion Fails After Complex Trauma

This post is Part 1 of a series. For years, clinicians and researchers have encouraged trauma survivors to cultivate self-compassion as part of healing. The evidence is compelling: People who can relate to themselves with kindness experience lower anxiety, less depression, and greater overall mental and physical health. Yet, for many survivors, the idea of self-compassion can feel not only elusive but also triggering. Navigating life as both clinician and survivor, I have learned that semantics matter. Self-compassion is not attainable for many of us, especially in the messy injury of trauma. As a concept, it is beautiful. We truly want to attain it. Yet, in the early stages of post-trauma, and especially complex trauma, it is often not a possibility. We try to understand and grow it, but many of us cannot. This is not because we are damaged or less than. It is because our body feels unsafe. This is especially true for self-kindness, which is one of the domains of self-compassion. Offering ourselves kindness when our internal systems feel stretched out, out …