All posts tagged: selfloathing

‘Niall’s in a tunnel of self-loathing’

‘Niall’s in a tunnel of self-loathing’

Add Half Man to your watchlist How did you get involved in Half Man? Baby Reindeer had just hit, so when this arrived on my doorstep my interest was piqued because Richard had this genuinely unique, fresh voice – it was television that you hadn’t really seen or felt before. I only read episode six, an incredibly heightened spiral, but his writing balanced intensely dark subjects with a sense of humour that is especially Scottish. That levity helped us through. Richard wrote Niall with me in mind, which was flattering, and we had a lovely conversation about the show’s themes and our personal experiences with them. Could you talk about that? I have a painful amount of self-loathing. I can’t watch anything I do and I’ve been that way for 10 years. It’s the act of finality I dislike because there’s nothing I can do to fix it. If I’m in something, I’ve ruined it, which is a self-centred, destructive way of thinking. Even when I was a dancer as a child, if I couldn’t …

Emotional abuse predicts self-loathing more strongly than other childhood traumas

Emotional abuse predicts self-loathing more strongly than other childhood traumas

A new psychological investigation suggests that emotional abuse in childhood serves as the primary driver for a debilitating form of personality pathology characterized by chronic shame and self-criticism. While various forms of mistreatment can leave lasting scars, this specific type of belittlement appears to predict a person’s tendency to view themselves with contempt more strongly than other trauma types. The research further identifies a distinct pattern in men, for whom physical abuse also plays a major role in shaping this negative self-image. These findings were published in the Journal of Family Trauma, Child Custody & Child Development. For decades, mental health professionals organized personality problems into distinct categories. A patient might receive a diagnosis of depressive personality disorder or narcissistic personality disorder. However, the field is currently undergoing a shift toward a dimensional model. In this newer framework, psychologists view personality issues as broad spectrums of dysfunction that can overlap. One such dimension is known as malignant self-regard. Malignant self-regard represents a core component of several personality disorders. It describes a person who struggles with …