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Can choking during sex cause brain damage? Emerging evidence points to hidden neurological risks

Can choking during sex cause brain damage? Emerging evidence points to hidden neurological risks

“Choking” is a term commonly used to describe applying pressure to a partner’s neck during intimacy. In medical contexts, however, choking refers to an internal blockage of the airway, like swallowing a foreign object. The clinical term for applying external force to the neck is strangulation. Strangulation restricts the flow of blood and oxygen to the brain. Over the past decade, this practice has transitioned from niche circles into mainstream sexual encounters. Medical professionals are beginning to investigate the potential neurological consequences of this behavior. A growing body of scientific literature suggests that these encounters provide evidence of hidden physiological strain. Scientists are now asking if consensual neck compression could lead to lasting brain damage. To answer this, researchers are looking at everything from basic anatomy to advanced brain imaging. The Biology of Neck Compression To understand the risks, it helps to examine the anatomy of the neck. The neck contains the jugular veins, which carry oxygen-depleted blood away from the brain, and the carotid arteries, which supply the brain with fresh oxygen. It also …

Richard Gadd explains unsettling sex scene in new drama Half Man

Richard Gadd explains unsettling sex scene in new drama Half Man

Get the latest entertainment news, reviews and star-studded interviews with our Independent Culture email Get the latest entertainment news with our free Culture newsletter Get the latest entertainment news with our free Culture newsletter Baby Reindeer creator Richard Gadd has said he wanted to leave viewers with complicated feelings over a sex scene that transpires in the first episode of his intense new BBC/HBO drama, Half Man. The actor and writer is returning to screens two years after his Netflix series – based on his own traumas and experience of being stalked while struggling as a comedian – became an global hit. Gadd, 36, stars in Half Man opposite Jamie Bell, with Mitchell Robertson and Stuart Campbell playing younger versions of their characters, Ruben and Niall. The show, which Gadd created and wrote, follows a pair of estranged “brothers” who are reunited on Niall’s wedding day, when Ruben turns up unexpectedly. The series then proceeds to flash back to their time as teenagers in the Eighties, who meet after their mums begin dating. In one …

‘The sex isn’t just about sex’

‘The sex isn’t just about sex’

Add Mint to your Watchlist In Mint, Charlotte Regan’s leftfield love story set in central Scotland’s criminal underworld, Lindsay Duncan plays Ollie. Mistress of this mobland when her husband was master, we meet the widowed Ollie as she is transitioned/relegated/sidelined into the mother of the king, with the ascension of her son Dylan (Sam Riley) to the position of the Godfather of Grangemouth. No longer queen bee in this hive of illegal activity, Ollie spends her days assembling and reassembling firearms, doting on her granddaughter Shannon, picking on her daughter-in-law, Cat, and satisfying her not insignificant sexual appetites by bedding Dylan’s henchmen – though beds are apparently optional. In a certain light, I suggest to Duncan when we meet, Ollie looks like a psychotic sexual predator. She wrinkles her nose in disagreement. “That sort of thinking is no help to me,” she declares, which is perhaps the nicest way in ages I’ve been told I’m talking rubbish. “The sex isn’t just about the sex.” The sex is about power, says Duncan, who originated the role …

The Influencers Normalizing Not Having Sex

The Influencers Normalizing Not Having Sex

“I don’t like to make a big deal out of waiting till marriage,” says De Buchi, who has traveled to over 20 countries alone. “In my friend group, everyone is. It’s very normal.” One of her friends runs an event called Hot, Holy, Healed for Christian women, where De Buchi sells her jewelry under her own name. The brand gives 10 percent of each sale to anti-trafficking organizations, she says. For De Buchi, the mission connects directly to how she thinks about sex itself. “There’s such a sexualized culture and perversion more than ever,” she says, “and people think that means more freedom. But I actually think it’s the opposite.” At the same time, she didn’t think she’d be waiting this long to have sex, having assumed she’d be married in her early twenties. She met her boyfriend on Hinge a year and a half ago. She was upfront about her own abstinence from the beginning. They don’t have sleepovers. “I don’t want to play house with someone before I marry them,” she says. “I …

What Happy V Unhappy Married Couples Bring Up In Sex Therapy

What Happy V Unhappy Married Couples Bring Up In Sex Therapy

About 20% of Brits say they feel somewhat sexually incompatible with their partners; a factor you might think determines their levels of happiness. But speaking to HuffPost UK, sex therapist and intimacy coach Leigh Norén said that “oftentimes unhappily married couples and happily married couples bring up the same sorts of issues in sex therapy”. What tends to be different, though, is how they present and the causes behind their concerns. What do happy vs unhappy married couples bring up most in sex therapy? Both groups often come in to discuss “mismatched libidos, erectile unpredictability and orgasm issues,” the sex therapist said, “but the sexual problems affect the couples in different ways”. Among happy couples, there might still be a lot of physical, but non-sexual, affection, she added. They’ll also have, “A lot of emotional connection. But it’s no longer translating into sex for various reasons. “For instance, they might feel more like roommates than lovers because their identities have become enmeshed. They act like a collective and do everything with one another, as opposed …

Nurse sacked after having sex in hospital three times

Nurse sacked after having sex in hospital three times

A mental health nurse has been struck off after having sex on three occasions at the hospital where she worked. Kate Sullivan was found by a misconduct panel to have repeatedly engaged in unprofessional behaviour while working at Bridgend’s Glanrhyd Hospital. Sullivan was based at the hospital’s Rowan ward – an all-male secure rehab unit with a high number of admissions from prison. She had been acting up as a band seven ward manager, her fitness to practise hearing was told. From October 2020 to summer 2021 she was in a relationship with a colleague which she did not declare to her employer, Swansea Bay University Health Board, which was a breach of workplace policy. Stay in the know by making sure you’re receiving our daily newsletter She would later admit: “I engaged in a casual relationship with a fellow colleague and he was working as a band two on the ward at that time.” The panel found Sullivan had sex with this man – referred to only as Colleague A – in their workplace …

The 19 Best Sex Toys Of 2026 For Your Next Orgasm

The 19 Best Sex Toys Of 2026 For Your Next Orgasm

We hope you love the products we recommend! All of them were independently selected by our editors. Just so you know, HuffPost UK may collect a share of sales or other compensation from the links on this page if you decide to shop from them. Oh, and FYI — prices are accurate and items in stock as of time of publication. This might sound dramatic, but I’m forever grateful I live in an age where sex toys are more normalised than ever. Just think about it: for hundreds of years, men’s pleasure has reigned supreme. And good for them – who doesn’t want to maximise their pleasure in life? But everyone should have equal opportunity to get off, and unfortunately, the orgasm gap persists in 2026. We still know criminally little about the female body; I mean, the clitoris has literally just been mapped in the same way as the penis. Plus, that eight in 10 women need clit stimulation to orgasm is still a little-known fact (they’re not teaching you that in sex ed, …

Sex After Menopause: Women Over 50 Share How It Feels And How To Feel Better

Sex After Menopause: Women Over 50 Share How It Feels And How To Feel Better

Menopause can bring about a number of mental, physical and emotional changes — including some shifts in your sex life. Clinically speaking, menopause is reached when you’ve gone 12 straight months without a period, marking the end of one’s reproductive years. The average age of the last menstrual period is 51, according to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists. But the transitional phase leading up to menopause, known as perimenopause, typically lasts about four years — though it can be as short as a few months or as long as 10 years. Colloquially, however, many use the word “menopause” as an umbrella term to encompass the whole process. During perimenopause, which often begins in your mid 40s, levels of hormones like estrogen and progesterone fluctuate. This can lead to irregular periods, hot flashes, insomnia, brain fog, mood swings, vaginal dryness and low libido — all of which can impact one’s sex life directly or indirectly. It’s worth noting that, for some individuals, symptoms may be intense and last a while, and for others they …

For Great Sex, IUDs Beat the Pill

For Great Sex, IUDs Beat the Pill

There are several good reasons why women might prefer the Pill over an IUD, but satisfying sex is not one of them. Among sexually active women who use contraception, 21 percent take birth control pills, while far fewer—13 percent—rely on intrauterine devices (IUDs). The Pill and IUDs both offer advantages and disadvantages. Women can assess which of the dozen methods is best for them by talking with family planning counselors at Planned Parenthood and other contraception providers. But those interested in satisfying sex are more likely to enjoy it if they choose an IUD over the Pill. Recently, a rigorous Brazilian study shows that, compared with IUD users, women taking the Pill report reduced arousal (p < 0.05), more sexual pain (p < 0.05), more anxiety and depression (p < 0.03), and less sexual satisfaction (p < 0.05). Does the Pill Have a Dirty Little Secret? Some studies show no connection between the Pill and women’s sex problems. But the Brazilian finding is not an outlier. Other studies have corroborated the Pill’s association with a …

From Heated Rivalry to I Want Your Sex, Smut Is Here to Stay

From Heated Rivalry to I Want Your Sex, Smut Is Here to Stay

Once upon a time, smut was shorthand for tattered ­copies of Fabio-fronted, horny and corny romances snuck under the covers, secreted into bedside tables by harlequin housewives. But now, the popularity of Heated Rivalry, salacious fairy books, and OnlyFans has revived and redefined the genre. Not unlike the “I know it when I see it” definition of obscenity, smut is the difference between a sex scene that cuts from a kiss to the next morning and a scene that builds to real…climax. The term dates back centuries and originates from the verb smutten, “to soil, smear, or stain with dirt” (a Yiddish word, schmutz, has a similar meaning). Books like Lady Chatterley’s Lover—D.H. Lawrence’s scandalous 1928 novel about a married upper-class woman who has an affair with her estate’s gamekeeper—helped bring smut to the fore when uncensored versions began to circulate in ’60s Britain. Ever since, smut has long been in the mainstream—from the boom of ’80s and ’90s erotic thrillers like Basic Instinct and Fatal Attraction to Fifty Shades of Grey’s pop culture dominance …