People tend to underestimate how much they’ll enjoy small talk, new study finds
If you’re avoiding small talk or casual chats because you think they’ll be boring, you may be missing out on meaningful connections, new research finds. Subscribe to read this story ad-free Get unlimited access to ad-free articles and exclusive content. People consistently underestimate how interesting and enjoyable these conversations will be, said Elizabeth Trinh, the study’s lead author and a doctoral student in management and organization at the University of Michigan’s Ross School of Business. “Even boring topics can lead to surprisingly meaningful interactions,” Trinh said. Americans are stuck in an epidemic of loneliness and ordinary conversations can help us cope, Trinh said. “If people avoid talking to a co-worker at the coffee machine or a stranger at an event or a neighbor in the elevator because we assume it will be boring and unenjoyable, we may be depriving ourselves of small moments of connection that could improve our mood, our sense of belonging and decrease loneliness,” she said. For the study, published Monday in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, Trinh and colleagues …








