Couples Who Don’t Need A Therapist For Every Argument Usually Know These 4 Things | Mary Jo Rapini
As a psychotherapist, I see many couples who are struggling with their marriage, but not every setback or challenge requires outside help. Couples who don’t need a therapist every time they argue know they won’t fix anything by adding more stress. However, when you are constantly arguing in your marriage, you are usually in a place of desperation and may not be thinking clearly. You need to know what will bring you together more to help secure the future. I see many couples who are struggling with their marriage. When I ask them how long the struggle has been going on, the answer is usually several years. When I continue to ask them how they have tried to fix it on their own, 80 percent of the time, having a baby, building or buying a new house, and/or having plastic surgery are typical answers. Just looking at the possible fixes they have used makes me stressed out when they could have done the following instead. Couples who don’t need a therapist for every argument usually …
