Elijah, 59 double quotation markOK, you’re volunteering on Tuesday, and I’m going fishing on Thursday, so we’re going to have sex on Monday and Friday Although Mia and I have been together for nearly three decades, we still have sex almost as often as when we first started dating in the 90s. I’d say we “get friendly” 2.5 times a week on average, which is definitely more than most other couples we know in our age bracket. The key has always been planning; 99 times out of 100, we’ll agree to have sex a day or two in advance, a pattern we established even before we got married. It means we’re never in the awkward position of trying to gauge whether the other person is in the mood. double quotation mark We’ve perfected our sexual routine now – down to the shower we always have together beforehand Most weeks, we just look at what we’ve got going on, then arrange sex accordingly – “OK, you’re volunteering on Tuesday, and I’m going fishing on Thursday, so …