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People With Neurodivergent Traits Have A Rare Social Superpower Says Study

People With Neurodivergent Traits Have A Rare Social Superpower Says Study

Published by Jenni Sidey

Historically, society has made the assumption that individuals with autism or other neurodivergent conditions lack social cues. This thinking has created a space where neurodivergent people are belittled or even infantilized.  Determined to discover the reason behind the misunderstanding, scientists have started to research the way the neurodivergent brain reacts within interpersonal relationships. A study conducted recently combats this idea of “lacking social cues” by presenting the idea that the disconnect is due to mismatched communication styles.  Those with neurodivergent tendencies communicate differently due to unique social processing. Neurodivergent people have often been categorized as “socially awkward”, with others assuming that it is due to a lack of theory of mind. The “theory of mind” is a term in psychology used to define our ability to understand what others are thinking and feeling as a cognitive resource.  However, being neurodivergent doesn’t stop you from comprehending others’ emotional states; you just respond to them differently.  Polina Zimmerman | Pixels The Double Empathy Problem highlights that neurotypical and neurodivergent people may not communicate as smoothly together because …

4 Simple Phrases Said By People Who Seem Effortlessly Cool In Groups

4 Simple Phrases Said By People Who Seem Effortlessly Cool In Groups

Published by Jenni Sidey

In 2023, the U.S. Surgeon General declared loneliness a public health epidemic, with about one in two American adults reporting that they experience loneliness. We’re more digitally connected than ever and somehow more isolated, which means that the moments when we’re actually in a room with other people matter more than they used to. The anxiety around group conversations is very real, too. Navigating large groups and working a room comfortably is not easy, but it can be learned. And like anything, practice and a few insider tips certainly help. A woman on TikTok named Victoria posted a video of herself in expert-level yoga poses while sharing her advice for how to interact with people in group conversations. Knowing what to say, how to hold your own, how not to accidentally make things weird? Overwhelming. What makes Victoria’s breakdown so useful is that these aren’t performance tricks or ways to seem cooler than you are. They’re genuinely kind moves that make the people around you feel more at ease. People who seem effortlessly cool in …

Gen Z Woman Against Grandmacore Lifestyle Tells Her Generation To Get To The Club

Gen Z Woman Against Grandmacore Lifestyle Tells Her Generation To Get To The Club

Published by Jenni Sidey

Gen Z is completely redefining what it means to party. The rise of “grandmacore” on social media platforms like TikTok and Instagram shows Gen Z adults are choosing to spend their nights tucked into bed reading or curling up on the couch to watch a movie. It’s a far cry from generations past who wouldn’t think of passing up an opportunity to hit the bars and clubs. However, a young woman recently shared a TikTok video urging Gen Z to reconsider “grandmacore” altogether, saying they should be embracing their 20s rather than rotting away on the couch every single night. A Gen Z woman against the ‘grandmacore’ lifestyle tells her generation to get to the club. “If I see one more video about how we should be more ‘grandmacore’ in our 20s when we should be at the club, I will lose it. We’re 22. We don’t need Botox and bedtime. We need three dirty martinis and a dance floor,” The Gen Zer insisted in her video. In an essay for The Atlantic titled “Americans …

Women Who Avoid Book Clubs, Networking Groups & PTA Committees Usually Have These 10 Personality Traits

Women Who Avoid Book Clubs, Networking Groups & PTA Committees Usually Have These 10 Personality Traits

Published by Jenni Sidey

Not all women yearn to be social. From avoiding family reunions to having a quiet wedding, some women aren’t keen on big social groups. While it may seem like a preference, women who avoid book clubs, networking groups, and PTA committees usually have these 10 personality traits. No, it isn’t just because they’re tired or aren’t in the mood. Sure, some women may not have enough hours in their schedule. However, for those who hate social groups, it isn’t just an off day. Having these 10 personality traits makes going to networking groups or PTA meetings ten times harder.  Women who avoid book clubs, networking groups, and PTA committees usually have these 10 personality traits 1. They’re introverted Hananeko_Studio | Shutterstock Women who avoid book clubs, networking groups, and PTA committees usually have the personality trait of being introverted. Sorry, but they aren’t too keen on socializing with others. While ambiverts and extroverts thrive on interacting with others, these individuals squirm at the thought of being in a large group. Call them crazy, but nothing …

People Who Only Have One Good Friend In The World Usually Have 11 Specific Traits

People Who Only Have One Good Friend In The World Usually Have 11 Specific Traits

Published by Jenni Sidey

Nowadays, it’s hard to find a genuine connection and develop a relationship on a deeper level. Finding and keeping friendships can feel incredibly difficult, but friendships are very important to our mental and physical well-being, as well as our longevity. While not everyone wants a large social circle, that’s not necessarily a bad thing, because people who only have one good friend in the world usually have specific traits that make them stand out. When people make friends based on quality over quantity, they’re able to form deep relationships based on trust, loyalty, and meaning. There’s no denying that having a wider support system makes life easier, but having one person who truly understands you inside and out is just as fulfilling. People who only have one good friend in the world usually have 11 specific traits 1. They value depth over quantity loreanto | Shutterstock It’s hard to meet deep-minded individuals and connect with them. In a world that’s becoming increasingly more materialistic, finding someone who truly wants to connect on a personal level …

People Who Still Like To Talk On The Phone Instead Of Texting Usually Have These 11 Increasingly Rare Personality Traits

People Who Still Like To Talk On The Phone Instead Of Texting Usually Have These 11 Increasingly Rare Personality Traits

Published by Jenni Sidey

Despite living in an age of convenience and ease, people who still like to talk on the phone instead of texting usually have certain increasingly rare personality traits. They prioritize things like connection and intention, even if the average person prefers to save their time with a text message or email. In many cases, these kinds of empathetic phone calls can even help to mediate the loneliness so many people today are grappling with, according to a study from JAMA Psychiatry. It’s not just about exercising extraversion or filling the time, but truly connecting with people and feeling seen amid the chaos of everyday life. People who still like to talk on the phone instead of texting usually have these 11 increasingly rare personality traits 1. They’re comfortable with silence Prostock-studio | Shutterstock While some might argue that pauses in conversations or silence over the phone are inherently “awkward” or “embarrassing,” people who still like to talk on the phone instead of texting have made peace with it. In fact, according to a study from …

People Who Are Socially Awkward In Public Usually Have These 11 Beautifully Rare Personality Traits One-On-One

People Who Are Socially Awkward In Public Usually Have These 11 Beautifully Rare Personality Traits One-On-One

Published by Jenni Sidey

People who struggle with awkwardness and embarrassment in their lives usually live in a constant state of “fight or flight.” On top of the social pain of being misunderstood and excluded, they struggle to practice authenticity when others are around. However, these people may find a break from this turmoil and cultivate belonging in small groups when they have a chance to connect with someone without distractions. A study from Health Communication argues that this kind of social awkwardness and chronic embarrassment can often lead to physical and mental health consequences when left unacknowledged. While all of these complex emotions and feelings can feel impossible and difficult to manage, people who are socially awkward in public usually have these beautifully rare personality traits one-on-one. People who are socially awkward in public usually have these 11 beautifully rare personality traits one-on-one 1. They’re introverted AYO Production | Shutterstock Many introverts struggle in busy, social groups because their social batteries quickly drain when they’re around small talk and superficial interactions. However, when they’re in one-on-one interactions, in more …

People Who Don’t Really Fit In Anywhere Notice 11 Specific Things Everyone Else Seems To Miss

People Who Don’t Really Fit In Anywhere Notice 11 Specific Things Everyone Else Seems To Miss

Published by Jenni Sidey

Many people tend to underestimate the pain that comes with the experience of feeling excluded or ostracized, especially when it’s by loved ones and peers in spaces where belonging and community are important. A study from the journal Science found that it’s a physical pain similar to that of stubbing a toe. We actually feel it inside, not just emotionally, but literally in our bodies. So, even if we undervalue the kind of resilience and grace it takes to cope with those social emotions, the truth is, it builds up character in incredibly influential ways. That’s why people who don’t really fit in anywhere notice specific things everyone else seems to miss. They’re tapped into a special sense of social awareness and driven by a quiet strength that not everyone’s had the unfortunate experience of needing to cultivate yet. People who don’t really fit in anywhere notice 11 specific things everyone else seems to miss 1. Conditional kindness Prostock-studio | Shutterstock When we feel understood and seen by others, it gives our nervous system a …

People With High Social Intelligence Do These 20 Things Differently Than Everyone Else

People With High Social Intelligence Do These 20 Things Differently Than Everyone Else

Published by Jenni Sidey

Social intelligence is integral to fostering the relationships we make and maintain with others. When you have a better understanding of the best way to interact with loved ones and even new acquaintances, your connections can flourish. Unfortunately, when we’re attempting to connect with another person, we may find it difficult to do so. But for people who are socially intelligent, we can learn a thing or two from them. People with high social intelligence do certain things differently than everyone else. Whether it’s making time to learn from others or leading with empathy and kindness, the way they approach these situations shows how much effort they put into communicating effectively with the people and world around them. People with high social intelligence do these 20 things differently than everyone else 1. They solve issues quickly Prostock-studio | Shutterstock Connections are collaborative, but they can be quickly sabotaged when people don’t feel genuinely loved and supported. Even in the most difficult situations and conflicts, being in a partnership or friendship means you attack problems together. …