How to Talk to Kids About the Bad Stuff
These days it can feel like the amount of bad news and tragedies in the world is overwhelming. As adults, we have different strategies for coping, but it can be tricky figuring out how to talk to little ones about bad things that happen, whether it’s the death of a close relation or scary things happening around the world. Kids are often curious and pick up bits of things they overhear. When kids ask direct questions, it can be confusing for caregivers to know what and how much to share. It often feels like a balancing act between giving information and not causing fear, stress, or anxiety in children and adolescents. Fortunately, we have some guidelines about what to do in these moments. 1. Be honest We all know the adage “honesty is the best policy.” It holds up here too. Kids deserve an honest answer. Honesty avoids confusion, misunderstanding, and later distress if they learn they were deceived. Caregivers may be tempted to censor the truth to protect kids, but being honest in an …









