If Mean People Ruin Your Vibe, This Simple Brain Trick Makes Them Easier To Ignore
“I am so sick of moving you out of apartments. I’ve moved you out of five apartments in four years, and enough is enough!!” “You know Jeremy threw me out, and I have to move today! I thought we were friends, but I guess if you have to go to your niece’s baptism instead of helping me move my few paltry items a few blocks, that tells me how you really feel about me!” “If I gave you a kidney, you’d think I was a bad friend!” “Don’t worry about it, because you wouldn’t give me a kidney if I were on death’s doorstep!” “Ahhhhhhhhhhh!” (sound of me screaming) This is an argument I had with a “friend.” Except for the fact that the friend wasn’t actually present. It was the argument I had in my head waiting in line at the grocery store to buy laxatives, since my annoyance rendered me constipated. Have you ever had feuds with those you love or loathe in your head? Literally spending hours — nay, days and weeks — grappling with this person, and they don’t even know about it? I’m going to say this because I want you to …









