All posts tagged: Blaming

Roku apps loading slow? 9 quick fixes I try before blaming my Wi-Fi

Roku apps loading slow? 9 quick fixes I try before blaming my Wi-Fi

Elyse Betters Picaro / ZDNET Follow ZDNET: Add us as a preferred source on Google. ZDNET’s key takeaways Restarting or power cycling a Roku can fix many lag issues. Updating or reinstalling apps can solve glitches and slowdowns. Test the network connection before blaming your Wi-Fi router. I own several Roku TVs and devices, including Roku soundbars and speakers. I love the platform for many reasons. But even I’ll admit that, sometimes, my Roku acts up. I especially hate it when apps take a moment too long to load. Or a menu lags. When a screen hangs long enough that I start feeling like I want to chuck my remote at the TV, it’s time to fix the problem. But first, what’s going on here? Is it my Roku or my Wi-Fi? Also: Every Roku user should know these 15+ shortcuts I know Roku devices can get bogged down by accumulating app data, glitchy apps, software updates, low memory, or the simple fact that they haven’t been restarted in a while. So, before I unplug my …

How to Stop Blaming Yourself When Your Partner Is Abusive

How to Stop Blaming Yourself When Your Partner Is Abusive

I have been studying forgiveness for over 40 years. During that time, I have conducted many studies of people traumatized by others’ unjust actions. Such injustice against a person can lead to anger, then to a more abiding sense of deep anger that we call resentment, and eventually to anxiety and even depression. For example, Reed and Enright (2006) found that emotionally abused women in marriage ended up with depression and did not like themselves. One often-unseen consequence of being treated badly, over and over, is starting to subtly blame oneself, making statements to oneself such as: “If only I had done___.” Or, “It takes two to have conflicts.” One of the more destructive self-statements is this: “I am not a very good person. Otherwise, my partner would not have treated me this way.” Such persistent self-talk can lead to low self-esteem or a dislike of oneself. The sad part is that the victim of the other’s injustice is now victimized again, this time by one’s own negative, unproductive inner talk that is harmful to …

Stop blaming victims | Radio Times

Stop blaming victims | Radio Times

Add Britain’s Murder Map with Vicky McClure and Jonny Owen to your watchlist This might be surprising coming from me, but I often find myself wondering why crime dramas and documentaries have exploded in popularity, perhaps at the expense of other genres. I’m obviously guilty, as an actor, for my part in this, with roles in Trigger Point and Line of Duty. Why are we so fascinated? Partly, we all want to understand what can make an individual commit such atrocious acts on another human being, often to someone closest to them. Perhaps it’s intoxicating and thrilling to watch detectives go about solving high-profile crimes, and comforting when baddies – fictional or otherwise – are locked up. But with my new Sky History series, Britain’s Murder Map, my husband – historian Jonny Owen – and I hoped to do something different. We wanted to focus on the forgotten victims. You may have heard of Bible John, the name the press gave Scotland’s most notorious serial killer, a man who was never identified following his 1969 …

Borthwick should stop blaming referees even if England have been unlucky

Borthwick should stop blaming referees even if England have been unlucky

For someone who claims not to discuss refereeing decisions, England head coach Steve Borthwick has spent a good part of this Championship doing precisely that. The nine yellow cards accumulated by England equals a record previously set by Italy in 2002 while their 55 penalties conceded was also a tournament high. Ellis Genge’s yellow card in the 48-46 defeat by France perfectly illustrates the cost of such rank indiscipline, directly costing England 21 points through a penalty try and then two further tries while the prop was in the sin-bin. Yet England’s real anger was centred around the officiating in the build-up to Louis Bielle-Biarrey’s fourth try – and with some justification. The incident came in the 65th minute with England leading 39-38. As Jack van Poortvliet plays the ball out from the scrum, France flanker François Cros clearly slaps the ball down. Referee Nika Amashukeli immediately calls out penalty advantage for deliberate knock on. After a couple of phases, the television match official Brett Cronan informed Amashukeli that the knock-on was accidental and the …

“Consumer Sentiment Going Down”: EU Auto Heads Begin Blaming Iran Conflict For Industry Woes

“Consumer Sentiment Going Down”: EU Auto Heads Begin Blaming Iran Conflict For Industry Woes

The first-order effect of the U.S.-Iran conflict was widespread disruption across the Middle East. The second-order effect was an energy price shock that drove gasoline and diesel prices at the pump sharply higher. The third-order effect could be a deterioration in consumer sentiment amid higher energy costs, rising inflation fears, and broader economic/geopolitical uncertainty. The transmission of the energy shock to consumers appears to have materialized just 12 days into Operation Epic Fury, according to executives at Volkswagen and Volvo Car, who report that consumer sentiment has already softened. “We are already seeing customer sentiment decline in many markets,” Volkswagen Head of Sales Martin Sander told an industry event in London earlier on Thursday. “Consumers were already facing a great deal of uncertainty, and this is now, of course, adding another layer of anxiety.” Volvo’s UK managing director, Nicole Melillo Shaw, told the audience that economic uncertainty may soon weigh on consumer sentiment enough for households to begin pulling back on big-ticket purchases. “If I don’t need to and I’ve got other considerations around the …

Blaming a partner for shared pornography use buffers relationship dissatisfaction in women

Blaming a partner for shared pornography use buffers relationship dissatisfaction in women

When women who morally object to pornography watch it with their romantic partners, they often experience heightened sexual shame that lowers their overall relationship satisfaction. Blaming their partner for the viewing habit serves as a coping mechanism that softens this negative impact. These observations were recently published in the journal Sexual and Relationship Therapy. Access to explicit sexual media has increased heavily over the past few decades. As a result, researchers have dedicated a great deal of time to evaluating the emotional and social impacts of this consumption. Much of the past work highlights problematic viewing habits or perceived addictions among male users. The perspectives of female viewers often remain overlooked in academic literature. When studies do include women, they usually focus on how women react to a male partner’s viewing habits. Kristin Doan, a researcher at Liberty University, wanted to shift this academic focus. Doan and her team decided to investigate how women process their own viewing experiences. They focused heavily on mutual viewing habits. Mutual viewing occurs when romantic partners consume explicit media …

Trump Nodded to Low GDP Numbers in Social Post Ahead of Public Release, Blaming Shutdown

Trump Nodded to Low GDP Numbers in Social Post Ahead of Public Release, Blaming Shutdown

WASHINGTON, Feb 20 (Reuters) – President Donald Trump seemingly flagged a disappointing end-of-year reading ⁠on ⁠U.S. economic growth before it was made public, ⁠criticizing the role Democrats played in an extended government shutdown last fall that pulled down the economy’s headline ​output numbers. “The Democrat Shutdown cost the U.S.A. at least two points in GDP. That’s why they are doing it, in mini form, again. No Shutdowns! Also, LOWER INTEREST ‌RATES. “Two Late” Powell is the WORST!!! President DJT,” ‌Trump said on social media more than half an hour before the release of new government data that showed the economy grew at just a 1.4% ⁠annual rate over ⁠the final three months of the year, with the 43-day federal shutdown from October 1, 2025, ​to November 12, 2025 lowering that by an estimated 1.15 percentage points. The president receives some economic data in advance, but elected officials have by tradition withheld comment until those reports are made public, often at 8:30 a.m. His call for lower interest rates has become a common refrain, with the …

Moore’s office fires back at Trump after blaming Potomac sewage spill on local Democrats

Moore’s office fires back at Trump after blaming Potomac sewage spill on local Democrats

Maryland Gov. Wes Moore (D) said Monday that President Trump was at fault for the Potomac waste spill, which now appears to be the largest in U.S. history, following scrutiny from the White House leader.  “The President has his facts wrong—again. Since the last century, the federal government has been responsible for the Potomac Interceptor,… Source link

Why You Should Stop Blaming Everything on Mercury in Retrograde

Why You Should Stop Blaming Everything on Mercury in Retrograde

Look: On some level, I get it. Mystic trust in the power of Mercury or whatever spans generations and intellectual capacities. (The most astrology-obsessed people I’ve ever met were grad students.) Attempting to rationalize our chaotic existence is among the oldest human impulses; it must be comforting to chalk up undesired outcomes to forces beyond anyone’s individual control, to abdicate authority and submit to the strong hand of fate. (I believe this is what Babygirl was about.) Only a nerd takes pleasure in responsibility, and we are firmly ensconced in an anti-nerd epoch. That said, what’s more insufferable—a skeptical know-it-all or a proud know-nothing? Fine, new question: What’s more damaging? If you absolutely must infuse your life with ancient baloney, why not try more interesting forms of paganism instead: Norse mythology! Cambodian folklore! Go ahead, take it at face value that Mercury in retrograde has some measurable effect on your day-to-day. It might feel harmless; it might feel pleasantly analog, like reading a paper book. But know that if you do, you’re just a hop, …