A few months after moving out of my home with my first husband and into the home of my (someday) second, I realized something. I had the same problems and was the same person I had always been — I was just in a new relationship. Changing relationships hadn’t “fixed” any part of my life equation. That’s because my half of the equation remained the same: me. And if I wanted a different solution, I needed to change. If you want to know how to love your husband, people in their 50s and 60s say there are some questions designed to help you foster a marriage filled with as much ease, love, and connection as possible while you both continue to grow as individuals. Research has suggested that they will hopefully provide as much predictability and consciousness as possible on this wild ride as a couple. People in their 50s and 60s say these 9 questions can quietly make you happier in your marriage: 1. ‘What kind of person do I really want to be in this marriage?’ oneinchpunch via …