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The deconstruction narrative has a rage problem. Taylor Tomlinson has the antidote.

The deconstruction narrative has a rage problem. Taylor Tomlinson has the antidote.

(RNS) — In 2006, the Reverend Barbara Brown Taylor published “Leaving Church,” a memoir of such quiet, luminous precision that it felt less like a departure than a deeper conversion into the world. It was a mid-life reckoning with a vocation, written by a woman who had stayed in the room long enough to earn the right to turn out the lights. Two decades later, the leaving-church narrative has been downgraded from a high-stakes spiritual crisis to a mandatory merit badge for red-state kids who self-sort into blue metro areas and dream of being writers. New York publishing still handsomely rewards the best versions of this genre. But the sheer volume of lesser entries has created the fantasy that rage pays. It rarely does for long. If you listen to the current crop of “deconstruction” memoirists — many of whom are barely out of their twenties — you would think that a sexually conservative household is a crime scene rather than a typical American Christian upbringing. It’s a trope that validates a certain brand of progressive politics …

Deconstruction & Coming Out – TheHumanist.com

Deconstruction & Coming Out – TheHumanist.com

The other day, I reached a milestone I never would’ve thought I’d reach with my mom. After being on testosterone for over a year and half and trying to keep it hidden from my transphobic parents, my mom found out – and the world didn’t stop spinning on its axis, nobody’s head exploded, no volatile arguments ensued. After a very nerve-wracking phone call in which I had no choice but to admit that I was on T, I came away from the conversation not only with pride in myself, but a bit of pride in my mom as well. Yes, the bar is low – shouldn’t all parents love their children unconditionally and accept their choices if they make them happy, so long as they are safe and informed? Well, yes. And for so long, even now, I tell myself not to get too happy, because she is still nowhere close to acceptance. I only refer to my mom in all of this because my dad and I barely talk, as he has never expressed …

Taylor Tomlinson’s Netflix special is too ungodly for many churches. This one welcomed her.

Taylor Tomlinson’s Netflix special is too ungodly for many churches. This one welcomed her.

(RNS) — “My iPhone started capitalizing the G in God again without asking me,” Taylor Tomlinson says in her latest Netflix stand-up special, gripping a mic beneath the ornate ceiling of Fountain Street Church in Grand Rapids, Michigan. “The robots are coming, and they love the Lord.” Wearing a cross on her necklace and a long leather jacket, Tomlinson looked right at home in the vaulted sanctuary. But the comedian’s set, filmed in November and released on Feb. 24 with the title “Prodigal Daughter,” would be regarded as irreverent at best by most nondenominational Christian congregations. Filled with sexual themes, f-bombs and jokes about everything from foreskins to the crucifixion — “I hope I die in a way that looks good on jewelry,” she quips — it would rate as blasphemous in many. But Tomlinson’s edgy content is exactly what made Fountain Street the perfect venue, church leaders say. The historic congregation is known for its support of abortion access, free speech and LGBTQ+ rights. It’s also an interreligious community that rejects specific doctrines. “The …