The Music of Fathers | Psychology Today
By Morton Sherman, Ph.D. Father’s Day always arrives with a soundtrack. For some, it is the crackle of old records spinning in the living room. For others, it is a favorite song sung off-key at family gatherings, the anthem played at Little League games, or the melody that drifted from the kitchen during holidays. For me, Father’s Day begins with a march. As children, my brothers and I would pile into the family car for long drives from Pennsylvania to New York. Somewhere along the journey, my father or mother would begin singing the Marine Corps Hymn: “From the Halls of MontezumaTo the Shores of Tripoli…” Soon all five sons would join in. The car became a chorus, a rolling concert hall of imperfect voices. We sang because Dad sang, for dad, for us. We sang because it was expected. We sang because, somehow, it made the miles shorter. At the time, I never thought much about it. Looking back, I realize those moments were about far more than music. They were about belonging. Neuroscience …
