During the meeting, Ketchum says the group discussed the Holocaust, white privilege, and sexism, and that the boys were told that if more inappropriate slurs were uttered again, the group would no longer be allowed to play Minecraft online together. “[Van der Woude] went not just right back at it, but worse,” she says. “He just kept doing it, and he was laughing, and [the kids] all just stopped playing with him.” Last month, the witness says, her son forwarded her a TikTok about Romain’s lawsuit. After watching it, she decided to contact Romain’s attorney. “This kid has been at this for years,” she says. “This is not coming out of nowhere for him.” Nilda van der Woude did not respond to a request for comment. As the litigation continues, Black parents at Harvard-Westlake tell me that the school isn’t doing enough to address their concerns about racism and accountability when it comes to both the boys’ and girls’ water polo teams, and the school overall. “It appears to me that they’re just kind of …