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3 Exhausting Behaviors Or A Person Obsessed With Being Perfect | Ruth Schimel, PhD

3 Exhausting Behaviors Or A Person Obsessed With Being Perfect | Ruth Schimel, PhD

For some people, striving for perfection feels like a good thing. After all, as a perfectionist, you give everything your best, most concerted efforts. However, perfectionism doesn’t mean your work will be great, and in some cases, trying to be perfect all the time can actually become a self-sabotaging habit. Perfectionists often don’t just want their work to be perfect — they feel like it needs to be, to prove their value to themselves and others. That can lead to an endless inner cycle of self-criticism that lowers self-esteem over time. Although I generally avoid being a perfectionist, I am suffering from the self-sabotaging effects of perfectionism right now as I edit a challenging, long chapter in my seventh book. Losing count of the endless iterations, I find the whole process very humbling. It also exposes how closely my ego is entangled with this process, even though I should be able to let go after less obsessive experiences with previous books.  Yet, in this situation, I realized my issue is tying the chapter topic too …

I went to the so-called ‘steroid Olympics,’ to understand why Silicon Valley is obsessed with peptides

I went to the so-called ‘steroid Olympics,’ to understand why Silicon Valley is obsessed with peptides

I am sitting in the sweltering Nevada heat watching a man struggle to lift a bar over his head. If the man manages to do it, he will win $250,000. The man is Boady Santavy — a two-time Olympic weight-lifting contestant from Canada — and he has muscles that look culled from the Marvel Cinematic Universe: massive, cartoonish arms that might as well belong to a superhero rather than a real human. Santavy is attempting to beat the world record for the men’s snatch — a lift of 183 kilograms, or approximately 403 pounds. After a tortured few seconds, Santavy drops the bar — an official “no lift” — and, with a look of animated dismay on his face, hobbles away, visibly cursing. Santavy is one of a small horde of 42 athletic contestants — weight lifters, swimmers, and track runners — that have gathered in Las Vegas over Memorial Day weekend to compete in the Enhanced Games, a unique (and, by now, quite notorious) athletic competition in which almost all of the participating athletes are …

These Android apps make my phone feel like a Windows Phone and I am obsessed

These Android apps make my phone feel like a Windows Phone and I am obsessed

Before smartphones settled into today’s Android-versus-iOS duopoly, there was a third platform that inspired a devoted fanbase: Windows Phone. It stood out for being bold and different, anchored by the Metro UI, which is a clean, tile-based interface that made every other smartphone home screen look cluttered by comparison. Live Tiles flipped and breathed with real-time information, and typography was king. When Microsoft officially discontinued Windows Phone in 2017, it left behind a design void that neither Android nor iOS has really addressed since. Most people eventually moved on to other platforms because they had to. Some of us, though, never fully got over it. I definitely fall into that second category, and lately I’ve been scratching that nostalgia itch by hunting down apps that recreate pieces of the old Windows Phone experience. Related I tried living with a Windows Phone in 2025 and it worked better than I expected Oh, how I’ve missed this long-lost phone OS. METROV Launcher The ghost of Lumia, resurrected METROV may already be the most convincing Windows Phone launcher …

Why Are Watch Guys Obsessed With This Camera?

Why Are Watch Guys Obsessed With This Camera?

But it’s the GRIIIx, first released in 2021, that’s especially ideal for watch photography—thanks to the addition of a 40mm focal lens, which is far better for capturing close-ups than the 28mm lens on the GRIII. “If you’re trying to do watch stuff, to me the X is the only real option,” says Pulvirent. By swapping out the lens, Ricoh accidentally unlocked a whole new audience. The gospel of the Ricoh GRIIIx has spread quickly through the watch world. “The Ricoh really got on my radar when I visited [watch retailer] Derek Mon earlier this year at Carat & Co. and he wouldn’t shut up about it,” Traina says. Mon tells me that the first person he saw using it was Kong. “It’s funny to know that I influenced others,” Kong says, “but someone else actually influenced me first: photographer-turned-watch brand founder Ming Thein. Not only did he teach me most of what I know about watch photography, but he’s also one of the most discerning people I’ve ever met. He picked up the IIIx …

Elon Musk Absolutely Obsessed With Tweets From Random Guy In India Who Constantly Glazes Him, Analysis Shows

Elon Musk Absolutely Obsessed With Tweets From Random Guy In India Who Constantly Glazes Him, Analysis Shows

Sign up to see the future, today Can’t-miss innovations from the bleeding edge of science and tech It looks like Elon Musk has an even bigger sycophant than his AI model Grok. According to a new analysis by The Washington Post, the world’s richest man appears to be obsessed with an anonymous account on X named “XFreeze” that he’s interacted with more than any other user on the platform this year. And naturally, the main thing XFreeze posts about is Musk.  The account, which WaPo traced to a man in India, constantly lavishes the site’s owner with praise: boosting his business ventures, attacking his enemies, and sharing inane memes that Musk invariably loves. Two years ago, XFreeze’s following was nonexistent, but today the account boasts over 200,000 followers, after assiduously courting the billionaire’s attention. As the reporting gets into, it’s a symbiotic relationship. Musk has a prominent mouthpiece that he can constantly boost to create the illusion of organic, popular support. And the account gets to cash in on the ridiculous amount of engagement that …

I Tested Shark’s ChillPill Portable Fan and Am Obsessed With One Special Feature

I Tested Shark’s ChillPill Portable Fan and Am Obsessed With One Special Feature

Along with being a portable, handheld fan, the ChillPill is also a cooling plate and water mister. Shark/Jeffrey Hazelwood/CNET CNET’s key takeaways  At $150, the Shark ChillPill is pricey, but it could be worth it for those who want a device that functions as more than a portable fan. I’m especially impressed with the ChillPill’s dry-touch mister and cooling plate, which can reduce skin temperature by up to 16 degrees Fahrenheit. I did occasionally experience issues pressing the display to activate the device. I also don’t love that all its accessories are sold separately, from $10 to $40. On elementary school field days, when classes would gather for outdoor events on what felt like the hottest day of the year, I used to get jealous of the kids who had those handheld fans that doubled as water misters. Shark’s new ChillPill personal fan reminds me of them, but in a more modern, high-tech form.  The ChillPill is three-in-one, in both what it does and how it can be used.  As a wellness editor who tests …

Sarah Jessica Parker shops… at Primark? Inside the new Manhattan flagship that has Americans obsessed

Sarah Jessica Parker shops… at Primark? Inside the new Manhattan flagship that has Americans obsessed

Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more On Friday, something surreal unfolded on New York’s West 34th Street. The Empire State Building glowed cerulean blue, while a Hollywood-style carpet unfurled along the sidewalk. Then came Sarah Jessica Parker, flanked by a motley crew of A-listers — including Andy Cohen, Emily Ratajkowski and Winnie Harlow — all smizing for paparazzi to commemorate the opening of… wait for it…. A Primark. Yes, Primark, the Irish fast-fashion chain best known for bargains like “three thongs for £10” ($13.50).” The spectacle has already become the subject of online bemusement, particularly among Brits (myself included), who are struggling to reconcile the retailer’s mass-market reputation with the full celebrity fanfare of a Manhattan flagship launch. In the U.K., Primark occupies such an unserious place in the cultural …

Why The Founding Fathers Were Obsessed with This Muslim Ruler

Why The Founding Fathers Were Obsessed with This Muslim Ruler

The writ­ings of the Found­ing Fathers of the Unit­ed States of Amer­i­ca include many a ref­er­ence to the likes of Cicero, Mon­tesquieu, and John Locke. That the names Hyder Ali and his son Tipu Sul­tan nev­er appear may not sound like much of a sur­prise, even if you hap­pen to know that they ruled the Indi­an region of Mysore, now offi­cial­ly called Mysu­ru, at the time. But his­to­ry records that more than a few Amer­i­cans, includ­ing Thomas Jef­fer­son and John Adams, fol­lowed with great inter­est the strug­gles of that father and son against the British. Those strug­gles took place from the mid-eigh­teenth to the ear­ly nine­teenth cen­tu­ry — a time when the Amer­i­can colonies, of course, had their own con­flict brew­ing with the moth­er­land. Hyder became the Sul­tan of Mysore in the sev­en­teen-six­ties: “a dan­ger­ous time to come to pow­er in South Asia,” writes Blake Smith at Aeon, giv­en that “the British East India Com­pa­ny was expand­ing its pow­er through­out the Sub­con­ti­nent.” Ally­ing with France, much like the rebelling Amer­i­can colonists, Hyder “held off the British …

Sadiq Khan says Trump is ‘obsessed’ with him because London is ‘the antithesis’ of America

Sadiq Khan says Trump is ‘obsessed’ with him because London is ‘the antithesis’ of America

The mayor of London has hit back after being criticised by Donald Trump, saying it is “absurd” he has attracted so much attention from the US president. Sir Sadiq Khan told the Big Issue magazine that London is the “antithesis” of all Mr Trump believes in. He said: “It’s absurd that President Trump is obsessed with me. It’s like I’m living rent-free inside this guy’s head for 10 years now. “President Trump, objectively speaking, is a nativist. He’s a protectionist and a unilateralist. He believes in mono-ethnicism. He believes in the superiority of his religion, Christianity, and of Americans. “Look at London. A city that is progressive, liberal, diverse, multicultural and the greatest city in the world. So we are the antithesis of all he believes in. “So I can understand why he wants to spread disinformation about this dystopian version of London because Londoners have chosen this guy who’s a Muslim of Pakistani origin.” The mayor said the president’s rhetoric is dangerous, adding: “The problem is, he’s brought into the mainstream views that should …

Why is Silicon Valley suddenly obsessed with being tasteful? | Fashion

Why is Silicon Valley suddenly obsessed with being tasteful? | Fashion

Last week, the US spy tech and data firm Palantir launched its latest “merch drop”, including a denim chore coat. “Rugged utility, enduring style” reads the website’s description of the $239 (£175) jacket, which is branded with the company’s logo on the chest pocket and comes in blue or black. Eliano Younes, the head of strategic engagement at Palantir, told the New York Times that it was part of the company’s commitment to “re-industrializing America” – the jacket is made in Montana and recalls workwear of a previous era. “It’s not political,” he added. “It’s about people who love Palantir and are aligned with our mission.” Never mind that this “mission” includes aiding the Trump administration’s deportation drive and Israel’s devastating assault in Gaza, not to mention publishing a creepy militaristic manifesto: the 420 jackets for sale were gone within a matter of hours. There’s no accounting for taste, it seems. Once niche, the durable, versatile French worker’s jacket – and other variations known loosely as chore coats – has become almost ubiquitous over the …