All posts tagged: subtle

Subtle Signs Of Boys Being Impacted By Manosphere: A Parent’s Story

Subtle Signs Of Boys Being Impacted By Manosphere: A Parent’s Story

Published by Sam Flores

After Louis Theroux’s latest documentary sparked a whole lot of conversation (and concern) over the growing popularity of ideologies shared by certain manosphere influencers, a parent has opened up about the subtle signs she noticed her sons were being influenced by such views years ago. For those who haven’t come across the term, the manosphere is “a collection of websites, social media accounts and forums dedicated to men’s issues, from health and fitness to dating and men’s rights”, according to Robert Lawson, associate professor in sociolinguistics at Birmingham City University. Yet it’s increasingly become associated with more extreme views – particularly anti-women and anti-feminist sentiments, as seen in Theroux’s documentary. The impact of this kind of content is concerning – and parents and teachers are seeing it trickle down to school-age children. Not only can it impact the mental health of boys and men, per UN Women, but it amplifies harmful sexist stereotypes, teaches dangerous social and dating behaviour, and makes both digital and real-life spaces more hostile for women and girls. Mandy Hickson, a …

8 Subtle Body Changes Women In Their 50s And 60s Often Brush Off, But Are Actually Signs Of Depression | Paula-Jo (PJ) Husack

8 Subtle Body Changes Women In Their 50s And 60s Often Brush Off, But Are Actually Signs Of Depression | Paula-Jo (PJ) Husack

Published by Jenni Sidey

Women in the United States are twice as likely to have depression as men. In fact, depression strikes 1 in 4 girls by the time they reach 14. For women in Australia and South Africa, the number is up to 40 percent. As we age, depression often goes undiagnosed because the physical symptoms — which are a part of depression — get separated by doctor and patient. Physical symptoms of depression that show in contrasting styles in women: They have high energy and are super-productive. Involved in everything simultaneously, emotional, colleagues think they’re controlling, and are extroverted. It looks like they’re too excited to be depressed … but they are. They move more slowly, are chill, speak less, and do less. The day is just a day, nothing special. Even their kids’ art or a pay increase brings little joy. Colleagues think they’re introverts. Nope, it’s depression. Neither personality types are connected with their true emotions, which is different than being “emotional.” However, both have physical symptoms that hurt. Many women have learned to code negative emotions by describing our physical states …

The subtle signs your dog may be in pain – that aren’t barking, limping or personality changes

The subtle signs your dog may be in pain – that aren’t barking, limping or personality changes

Published by Daniella Wilson

Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more Stay ahead of the curve with our weekly guide to the latest trends, fashion, relationships and more If you live with a pet, you might feel like you can almost read each other’s minds. You might even have experienced your pet responding to your emotional state. Animals seem to have impressive skills at detecting our state of health too. However, new research suggests that many dog owners are not skilled in recognising pain in their pets as they might like to think. This could have significant consequences for the behaviour, health and welfare of our pets. As a migraineur, I am amazed at how my dogs cope with me when a migraine hits. They seem to recognise the pain, distress and incapacity that comes along with a migraine and respond with more gentle interactions than usual. I hope that when the …

David Beckham’s subtle jab at Victoria after she removed marriage tattoo dedications

David Beckham’s subtle jab at Victoria after she removed marriage tattoo dedications

Published by Daniella Wilson

David Beckham showed off his plethora of body art during a recent trip to Miami, days after his son Cruz revealed Victoria Beckham had removed all of her tattoos, including her tributes to her husband.  The 50-year-old posed up a storm in his latest Instagram post and ditched his shirt for a selfie in the glistening sun, after celebrating the opening of his football team, Inter Miami’s Nu stadium.  Standing up in a swimming pool, the former footballer leaned against the edge and snapped a quick picture as the sun beamed down over his shoulder, highlighting his array of tattoos which cover his chest, arms and neck.  The father-of-four flexed his abs against the tropical backdrop of palm trees and added a caption that read: “Good afternoon,” with a sun emoji as he smiled in a baseball cap.  Fans were quick to express their admiration for the star in the comments, and among them was David’s wife Victoria, 51, who playfully said: “Someone has been in the gym!!!,” with fire and red heart emojis.  “Ageing like …

7 Subtle Decisions People Make Every Day That Quietly Lead To Unhappiness | Judith Tutin

7 Subtle Decisions People Make Every Day That Quietly Lead To Unhappiness | Judith Tutin

Published by Jenni Sidey

As I approached a birthday, one with a ginormous number, a wise coach posed the question: If not now, when? I was grumbling about how I hadn’t been getting enough done when I wanted to spend more time engaging in activities that would result in getting even less done. “If not now, when?” she asked. My coach had a valid point. Perhaps you, too, use some of these same rationalizations as you avoid pursuing your passions and desires. A Harvard University study has suggested we make subtle decisions every day that quietly lead to unhappiness.  Here are seven subtle decisions people make every day that quietly lead to unhappiness: Decision #1: ‘I’ll do it next year’ DimaBerlin via Shutterstock It might be the big trip you’ve been talking about for eons. Perhaps time or money is getting in the way of taking that Alaskan cruise or visiting India. These are my fantasy trips, not yours, but surely you have a place you’ve always wanted to go or a thing you’ve been hoping to get to …

Victoria Beckham confirms Jackie Apostel and Kim Turnbull’s place in the Beckham inner circle with subtle gesture

Victoria Beckham confirms Jackie Apostel and Kim Turnbull’s place in the Beckham inner circle with subtle gesture

Published by Daniella Wilson

Kim Turnbull and Jackie Apostel, the adoring girlfriends of Victoria Beckham’s younger sons, Romeo and Cruz, certainly had an exciting Easter. Not only did they spend the day within the decadent walls of the former Spice Girl’s Miami penthouse, but they also got the ultimate sign of approval from martriarch VB. Kim and Jackie both had easter bags full of presents and eggs In her Easter update on social media, Victoria proudly showed off the Easter table she had prepared with Easter bags for each member of the family – including Kim and Jackie.  In the post, shared on Victoria’s Stories, the mother-of-four looked her usual immaculate self while sitting at the dining table in her pinstripe robe and bunny ears, surrounded by the personalised bags, which were full of Easter gifts and personalised Easter eggs. David looked very happy with his Country Life magazine “Happy Easter,” the fashion mogul penned in the caption. A second photo showed what her husband, David Beckham, was gifted in his Easter bag, the former footballer beaming while he …

If A Man Wants You To Question Your Own Sanity, He’ll Use These 12 Subtle Phrases To Gaslight And Manipulate You

If A Man Wants You To Question Your Own Sanity, He’ll Use These 12 Subtle Phrases To Gaslight And Manipulate You

Published by Jenni Sidey

Gaslighting tactics have been primarily understudied in psychological research until recent years. It’s not just an experience that people struggle with in their relationships and tolerate in their passing interactions; it’s a psychological and manipulative tactic that’s often associated with narcissism and toxic partners. For many people, it’s a constant battle. Their relationship is riddled with subtle phrases meant to make them develop a distrust in themselves, all with the careful choice of their partner’s words. Whether it’s passing blame or acting like the victim, if a man wants you to question your own sanity, he’ll use these certain subtle phrases to gaslight and manipulate you. But by recognizing these patterns, people can safeguard their emotional health, setting a clear expectation of the respect they demand and the energy they allow in their daily lives. If a man wants you to question your own sanity, he’ll use these 12 subtle phrases to gaslight and manipulate you 1. ‘You sound crazy’ MAYA LAB | Shutterstock According to a study from Maricopa Community Colleges, knowing your partner …

The six subtle signs of hearing loss doctors say you should never ignore

The six subtle signs of hearing loss doctors say you should never ignore

Published by Daniella Wilson

Get the Well Enough newsletter with Harry Bullmore for tips on living a healthier, happier and longer life Get the Well Enough email with Harry Bullmore Get the Well Enough email with Harry Bullmore Hearing loss frequently progresses imperceptibly, making its early indicators easy to overlook. However, experts are now emphasising the critical importance of recognising these subtle red flags. The Royal National Institute for Deaf People (RNID) is urging the public to prioritise their auditory health, promoting its free online check after a recent survey highlighted widespread, undiagnosed issues. The poll of 1,810 individuals, none previously diagnosed with hearing loss, found almost half (47 per cent) would struggle to hear leaves rustling. Similarly, 46 per cent reported difficulty hearing their name from another room, and 43 per cent struggled with the sound of nearby rainfall. In addition, around four in 10 said they would not be able to hear cyclists ringing their bell (42 per cent), someone knocking at their door (40 per cent), or a phone ringing in a nearby room (39 per …

Your body exhibits subtle physiological changes when you engage in self-deception

Your body exhibits subtle physiological changes when you engage in self-deception

Published by José Betancourt

A recent study published in the journal Psychophysiology suggests that when people are unsure about their own performance but try to boast about it, their bodies still show subtle signs of lying. The research provides evidence that uncertainty pushes individuals into a middle ground between honesty and deception. This middle ground allows individuals to boost their self-esteem while experiencing less physiological stress than an outright lie. Humans often navigate complex social situations by deciding whether to be honest or to bend the truth for personal gain. Telling a clear lie usually triggers physical changes like increased sweating, while being completely honest tends to keep the body in a calmer state. Both of these actions depend on a person knowing the actual facts of a situation. Yet, everyday life is full of ambiguous situations where people do not have all the facts. Scientists wanted to understand what happens to a person’s body and confidence when they lack clear information but still try to present themselves in the best possible light. They aimed to see if people …

Gwen Stefani’s ex Gavin Rossdale takes subtle swipe at her parenting style

Gwen Stefani’s ex Gavin Rossdale takes subtle swipe at her parenting style

Published by Daniella Wilson

Gwen Stefani’s ex-husband, Gavin Rossdale, shared unexpected insight into the duo’s parenting dynamic following their split in 2015. The duo were married for 13 years and welcomed three sons together before they went their separate ways amid allegations of infidelity.  The Bush frontman explained his current relationship with Gwen in an interview with Fox News Digital, and revealed that they parent their kids Kingston, 19, Zuma, 17, and Apollo, 12, differently to each other.  “It is an interesting kind of [relationship],” Gavin said. “It’s a two-lane highway, you know, but they don’t ever seem to merge, which is fine.”  © Getty Images for iHeartRadioGavin opened up about co-parenting with Gwen “[She’s] probably doing the best she can, and I’m doing the best I can,” he continued. “And the kids are growing up, so I’m a proud proponent of the system.”  The 60-year-old added that he was focused on raising his sons to be kind and considerate, especially as the children of two famous people.  “I think that if you’ve got kids that are unlikable, they’ve …