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Mothers’ humor during sex talks can make teenage daughters less open, new study suggests

Mothers’ humor during sex talks can make teenage daughters less open, new study suggests

A new study published in The Journal of Sex Research provides evidence that when teenage daughters use humor to talk about sex with their mothers, they tend to experience better sexual well-being. The same study suggests that when mothers use humor during these conversations, it can actually make daughters less willing to open up. These findings highlight how the way family members interact during sensitive discussions shapes a teenager’s healthy sexual development. Discussing sexuality is often an uncomfortable experience for both parents and teenagers. Lotem Schmil-Itzhak, a student and educational consultant, and Professor Yaniv Efrati, head of the Addictive Behaviors Laboratory in the Faculty of Education at Bar-Ilan University, wanted to explore whether humor could ease this tension. “Sex education is an extremely important and meaningful topic for conversations between parents and adolescents,” the researchers explained. “However, in practice, these conversations are often accompanied by embarrassment, discomfort, avoidance, and silence.” The researchers noted that many parents struggle to initiate and sustain these discussions naturally. “One possible way to make these conversations feel less threatening is …

Schopenhauer: The Philosopher of Pessimism and Humor

Schopenhauer: The Philosopher of Pessimism and Humor

Whereas Leibniz, Kant, and Hegel could count as optimists (people who think that human life will improve), Schopenhauer is the first (and last) thinker in all Western philosophy to have constructed a complete and systematic pessimism. But he is interesting for other reasons too. For his Great Philosophers series (1987), Bryan Magee, who wrote a thick book on Schopenhauer, introduced him as “the only major Western philosopher to draw serious and interesting parallels between Western and Eastern thought.” Magee continues: “He was the first major Western philosopher to be openly and explicitly atheist. He placed the arts higher in the scheme of things and had more to say about them than any other important philosopher … He was himself among the supreme writers of German prose. Many of his sentences are so brilliantly aphoristic that they’ve been torn out of context and published separately in little books of epigrams.” Schopenhauer’s humorous epigrams To give you a flavour, here are a few of Schopenhauer’s many epigrams: Talent hits a target no one else can hit. Genius …

The Humor of Miscommunication | Psychology Today

The Humor of Miscommunication | Psychology Today

Verbal humor is a common subcategory in the pantheon of laughter stimuli; it joins behaviors including slapstick, pranks, and various forms of performance humor. Over the decades, scholars have followed numerous paths to understand why people find certain words or phrases amusing, and one of these is based on Grice’s four maxims. H. Paul Grice made the case that effective verbal communication possesses four basic properties—quantity, quality, relation, and manner—each category is described by one or more “maxims.” (Grice, 1975.) Briefly, quantity refers to making one’s input no less informative than required, but not more than necessary to avoid inefficiency. Quality relates to one’s input being truthful and supported by evidence. Relation (relevance) requires one’s contribution to be on topic until the subject has organically changed. Good manner ensures one’s speech is clear, orderly, and avoids ambiguity. Some humor scholars have used these Gricean maxims to explain why verbal humor results in laughter (Dia, 2023; Novebry and Rosa, 2019). Exchanges between two or more individuals in which these rules are violated represent a breach of …

You Can Figure Out The Kind Of Person Someone Is By What Makes Them Laugh

You Can Figure Out The Kind Of Person Someone Is By What Makes Them Laugh

Laughter can provide many quantifiable benefits, from calorie burning to stress relief. Additionally, a good belly laugh is a natural endorphin inducer and generally makes everyone feel good.  That said, humor isn’t universal. Some may shy away from certain types, like sarcasm, self-deprecating jokes, or jokes that make another person the punchline. And, adversely, those same jokes may make another person crack up.  That’s why personality plays a huge role in what makes someone laugh. In essence, you can get a sense of someone simply by what makes them laugh, from dark humor to dad jokes. Personality type expert Merrick Rosenberg is a firm believer in the theory that what makes people laugh is a good indicator of what kind of person they are.  You can almost always figure out the kind of person someone is by what makes them laugh, explains personality type expert. Merrick Rosenberg, an award-winning speaker, author, entrepreneur, CEO, and self-described “personality ninja,” shared in a TikTok video, “that joke you can’t stop laughing about is revealing who you are,” and psychologists …

You Can Usually Tell How Smart Someone Is By Their Type Of Humor, Says Study

You Can Usually Tell How Smart Someone Is By Their Type Of Humor, Says Study

Do you like your humor like you like your soul: dark? The bad news is that you’re possibly more than a little twisted. But there’s good news, too: You’re probably pretty smart. The kind of dark humor that makes other people visibly uncomfortable requires a specific kind of cognitive horsepower to both produce and appreciate, research has shown. Dark humor is all about processing multiple layers of meaning at once, which is a genuinely demanding mental task. People who can find humor in the darkest corners of life tend to score higher on measures of emotional intelligence and resilience, which means that twisted sense of humor might actually be one of your sharpest tools. A study says that people who appreciate dark humor are often very intelligent Gary Barnes / Pexels If you like dark humor, you’re likely smarter than those who don’t like the occasional black comedy joke, and you probably have more emotional stability to boot. In 2017, psychologists from the Medical University of Vienna had the incredible job of studying the reactions …

how extreme personalities view their friends’ humor

how extreme personalities view their friends’ humor

Social relationships form the foundational infrastructure of human well-being and psychological health. Strong connections help protect against daily stress and build lifelong emotional resilience. Conversely, social isolation is tied to a host of physical and mental health vulnerabilities. While familial interactions and romantic bonds see plenty of academic attention, platonic friendships are just as vital to a long and healthy life. Friendships offer unique psychological benefits compared to other types of social ties. Relationships with relatives often carry rigid biological or cultural obligations, and romantic partnerships are typically weighted with intense emotional expectations. A platonic friendship is a lower-pressure environment where people can engage in voluntary self-disclosure. These relationships provide a safe arena to practice social skills and find comfortable, judgment-free companionship. Because establishing a friendship is an entirely voluntary process, a major ingredient in building that relationship is perceived similarity. People naturally gravitate toward strangers who share their personal values, core beliefs, and behavioral quirks. Once a bond is established, friends tend to naturally evaluate each other as being much like themselves. However, specialized …

When Jokes Won’t Do: Affective Shifts in U.S. Late-Night Comedy

When Jokes Won’t Do: Affective Shifts in U.S. Late-Night Comedy

The news these days seems dire, so much so that people are opting out. News avoidance is a rapidly increasing phenomenon, mainly because a growing number of people are overwhelmed by the sheer onslaught of negativity. Simultaneously, we have seen the continued rise in popularity of an entire genre of media whose job it is to find the funny in what many feel to be too much to bear. We are, of course, talking about late-night comedy. In times of exceptional turmoil, many audiences turn to their favorite late-night host to experience some form of catharsis or distraction and slowly begin the process of making sense and making meaning out of tragedy. And yet, all too often, in moments of crisis, they are met with unusually somber or emotional monologues. Just think of Trevor Noah’s statements after the George Floyd killing, Jimmy Kimmel’s tearful speech in the aftermath of the Uvalde massacre or—more recently—Jon Stewart’s emotional response to the killing of Renee Good. All of these constitute what we have coined “affective shifts,” a rhetorical …

Using the Absurd: How Erasmus Challenges His Students

Using the Absurd: How Erasmus Challenges His Students

The Dutch humanist Desiderius Erasmus, more often called Erasmus of Rotterdam, is well known for his satirical Praise of Folly, his letters, and his theological work. Yet his work as a teacher has received less attention, even though his Colloquies was widely read in Europe during his life and after his death. Although translations were made quite early and are still readily available, my interest lies solely in the use of the Latin text, for this work is a collection of colloquial phrases and dialogues originally created as material for the students Erasmus tutored in Latin. Reconstructing Erasmus’s educational practices can offer a fascinating window on a crucial part of his humanist agenda by revealing how his pedagogical ideas could be used in teaching situations. Motivation was a key element in his didactics. Erasmus paid special attention to motivating pupils, knowing the pedagogical obstacles presented by an unmotivated student. This is where Erasmus’s concern with humor comes in. It is possible to learn Latin without any humor at all, but apparently Erasmus found it a …

I Took The ‘Struggling Millennial’ Test And 7 Signs Hit A Little Too Close To Home

I Took The ‘Struggling Millennial’ Test And 7 Signs Hit A Little Too Close To Home

Millennials are a strange bunch. On paper, we don’t have much to complain about. Yes, 9/11 happened. The War on Terror. The 2008 crash. The slow death of the planet. The internet is melting everyone’s brains. But honestly? I think those things happened to everyone else, too. So what really makes millennials so very millennial? At first, the idea of a ‘struggling millennial’ test sounds like a joke, the kind of Internet quiz you take for a quick laugh, but as I started making this list, a few of the signs felt a little too familiar. Somewhere between student loans, unstable career paths, and the strange pressure of adulthood that never quite looks like what we were promised, the test began to feel less like satire and more like an uncomfortable mirror. I took the struggling millennial test, and seven signs hit a little too close to home: 1. Struggling millennials rent until they buy a plot of land for their trailer Our version of the house with the white picket fence turned out to …

Celebrity Cameos, Edgy Humor and Mixed Reactions

Celebrity Cameos, Edgy Humor and Mixed Reactions

The reviews are in for Saturday Night Live UK, hosted by Tina Fey with musical guest Wet Leg in its debut this weekend. The sketches on the first-ever international spinoff of Lorne Michaels’ hit NBC show — impressively executed by a relatively unknown cast and watched on Sky by over 220,000 people — were wide-ranging and made use of the U.K.’s over-performing rolodex of British talent. The cold open began with U.K. Prime Minister Keir Starmer (played as a dawdling, anxious mess by George Fouracres) enlisting the help of a Gen Z consultant (Jack Shep) to work up the courage to send a voice note to U.S. President Donald Trump and declining to go to war with him. “I’ll do anything,” says Fouracres as Starmer. “Except take a stand.” Hammed Animashaun was on standby as a sycophantic deputy PM, David Lammy. Then it came to Fey’s opening monologue from a set not dissimilar at all from its American counterpart. “It’s an absolute honour and kind of historic,” said Fey to the live audience. “Guys, I am …