All posts tagged: Miscommunication

The Humor of Miscommunication | Psychology Today

The Humor of Miscommunication | Psychology Today

Verbal humor is a common subcategory in the pantheon of laughter stimuli; it joins behaviors including slapstick, pranks, and various forms of performance humor. Over the decades, scholars have followed numerous paths to understand why people find certain words or phrases amusing, and one of these is based on Grice’s four maxims. H. Paul Grice made the case that effective verbal communication possesses four basic properties—quantity, quality, relation, and manner—each category is described by one or more “maxims.” (Grice, 1975.) Briefly, quantity refers to making one’s input no less informative than required, but not more than necessary to avoid inefficiency. Quality relates to one’s input being truthful and supported by evidence. Relation (relevance) requires one’s contribution to be on topic until the subject has organically changed. Good manner ensures one’s speech is clear, orderly, and avoids ambiguity. Some humor scholars have used these Gricean maxims to explain why verbal humor results in laughter (Dia, 2023; Novebry and Rosa, 2019). Exchanges between two or more individuals in which these rules are violated represent a breach of …

If Someone Does These 7 Things In Your Relationship, It’s Not Miscommunication — It’s Disrespect

If Someone Does These 7 Things In Your Relationship, It’s Not Miscommunication — It’s Disrespect

Finding true respect while dating can be extremely difficult, especially since not everyone wants to get to know you and build a serious relationship. Some people only date for money. Others only date for even more selfish reasons. While research has shown that when some people feel greater commitment with a partner they don’t get along with, they can become more selfish.  So, what do some people do in a relationship that can help you determine if it’s disrespect, not just a simple case of miscommunication? Believe it or not, people often ignore or don’t notice the obvious signs of dating someone who doesn’t have basic respect for them. If someone does these 7 things in your relationship, it’s not miscommunication — it’s disrespect: 1. They constantly ask for favors Studio Romantic via Shutterstock Even though this may seem innocent at first, sometimes, it’s a red flag of disrespect if they start taking advantage of your kindness. Of course, you would do anything for your significant other, but when these requests become a habit or expectation, look …